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ladyjae09 See my TER Reviews 1596 reads
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if your into roleplay ask a provider not a massage gal.  
I don't mind if you want to talk dirty, but don't ask for something that I don't offer.  FBSM is not anything like BDSM.

candleburner2715 reads

Every provider I've encountered has been extremely receptive to special requests for clothing options provided she had the requested outfit available.

But, I recently made a "fantasy request" to a provider and I was extremely nervous about proposing it.  It wasn't anything extreme, just a mild role play scenario.  The provider agreed, and it turned out great.  In fact she let me know it was hot for her too.  

So my question, how do providers feel about being asked to role play?  Of course everyone has sexual limits, provided the fantasy doesn't cross that line are some requests declined just because the provider feels silly complying (I couldn't keep a straight face if I was asked to act like a chicken for instance!)?  What are the non-sexual limits (simulating pedophilia, dressing like a nun, racial insensitivity, etc...)?

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Serene Brennan3486 reads

a gentleman wanted me to act like a robot.

Second only to the guy who booked a double, and wanted us both to be his Aunts who caught him masturbating and then taught him about 'real sex'. (Which I guess has midly incestuous connotations... but I didn't mind this one...)

Straight faced was near impossible with both of these...

My suggestion would be to try milder role-plays, and then with ladies that seem to enjoy it.. suggest the wilder ones you are interested in.

I love sensual role-plays and have enjoyed seducing the handyman, playing a secretary, a doctor, a psychologist, a schoolteacher etc... I also wrote a little RAQ on my blog about wardrobe requests linked below... (Really asked question)

I would also avoid things that are extreme taboo like you said.. pedophilia, anything humiliating and degrading to either party... Those type things are better addressed with a Domme' experienced in BDSM dynamics than an escort.

Related Link: Can I request a special outfit or roleplay?

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mrfisher1050 reads

(Clink link.)

Related Link: My Living Doll

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niceenuf835 reads

A robot???  I'm surprised you could get through it without being bored to death never mind laughing.

My suggestion was definitely sensual role-play and involved seduction.  It was fun.

Thanks for your input!

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SinsOfTheFlesh918 reads

I love role plays! I have a regular that I role play with all the time. Just yesterday I was the shy high school librarian seduced while shelving books *smile* Next time I see him, he'll be playing the part of my church's new pastor, paying a courtesy call on his congregants, and I'll be the horny housewife who leads him into temptation. Can't wait!

Every lady is going to feel differently about role plays in general and even those who do enjoy role play will have their limits on what is ok and what is not.

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maturebridgette1240 reads

I LOVE role play. Its creative and I really get into it..I like it when a man knows what he wants and what he likes..I have done several fetishes also..seems I get the foot and leg fetish the most which always works for me (since my nickname is Leggz)

Advice to the gentlemen about requesting role play or fetishes..Most of us have heard it all..don't be shy..but start off with " I like role play and this is what I am looking for" Just don't get discriptive on the sexual aspects of the "play".

Role-play or fetishes don't make you weird ..just creative..and there is nothing wrong with that..

Also, never anything wrong with good old fashion erotic passion...

(thoughts)

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hawk56861141 reads

how do you go about asking the provider? I've always wondered this myself but never wanted to ask. wasnt sure to ask in e mails and conversations or wait until you get in the room and you know things will happen

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maturebridgette1002 reads

If you wait until you 2 are in the same room, you may not get what you arelooking for..better to ask ahead of time..

be polite and discrete:D

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niceenuf1639 reads

It was easy for me to ask via e-mail because my request wasn't too detailed.  If you get too graphic in an e-mail some providers get turned off.  No harm in asking, "hey I have a special request, do you think we can talk about it in advance"...of course waiting till the appointment itself takes away the reality of the fantasy a bit.

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ladyjae091597 reads

if your into roleplay ask a provider not a massage gal.  
I don't mind if you want to talk dirty, but don't ask for something that I don't offer.  FBSM is not anything like BDSM.

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