I 'm extremely new to the game... I recently just got my FIRST escort for 400/hr... she was a really hot blonde, but really sweet at the same time... but when she got here, she said that a BBBJ will be another $500, and a FS will cost in the thousands range....

Do all escorts charge this much? Going in, I thought the hourly wages INCLUDE the FS..........

Sounds like you haven't read her reviews. Or did she have any reviews? If you are not VIP here get it!! I've never had a lady upsale me but of course I read the reviews on her to make sure stuff like that never happens. If you are truely a newbie (and it sounds like it) then read the newbie manual and everything. Get VIP and then book a well reviewed lady. There are plenty of very "hot" ladies here that their price is their price. Sounds like you got ripped off big time!

Good luck!

Beware of ladies and agencies who up=sell.  The price on her website or her ad should be inclusive of all services.  I'm going to guess that you did not choose a well-reviewed TER provider.  That was your first mistake.

It was once not uncommon for gals to have a menu of items, but it was no surprise.

They would say that their fee for showing up was something like $100, and then we can discuss it from there.

Now-a-days, almost all providers are all-inclusive and I'm glad that they are.

Dude, no other way to say it but you got screwed, at least figuratively. Believe me, there are others that have had similar things happen to them. Well, at least one (me). Not everyone is fortunate to have found TER early on and things do not always work out in your favor when you are gambling.

You have taken a good first step by asking for advice. Take what's been offered, use it, find a great, well-reviewed lady that matches your "type", and go for it again. It will be worth it if you put a little more effort into it.

K

There are rates and there are scams...  like up-sell.  You are a newbie as I was not too long ago.  Read the newbie manual at the top a couple of times.  Sure it takes time but it's an investment in your future happiness.  Read back on this board for several pages & at least a few on other boards.
A "well reviewed provider" states their rates up front & is generally all inclusive.  By way of definition, a well reviewed provider has 4-6 minimum reviews, and the reviewers have several reviews also.  (So you know the reviews were not planted despite TERs considerable efforts to prevent this.  By the way this is what separates TER from provider driven sites.)
No, you can't go by the numbers scale, you need to read the reviews, so onbce you get to that point, you need VIP.  Compared to the rates you mentioned VIP cost is very good investment.
You'll need to learn to use the search...  search just phone, just name...  see what comes up.  
BTW, some ladies advertize "TER Reviewed"...  some have good reviews but some have reviews that would have kept me away...  Check the reviews before the date!
Fortunately you've found TER before you made any big mistakes.
skb

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This is the typical bullshit you'd see in Vegas all the time back before sites like TER existed.  You still see this in Vegas and other places to a lesser extent with newbies.  

But, not, this is upselling in the worst kind of way and is not something that the wise hobbyist has to put up with.

Research
Research
Research
Research
Research
Research
                Enough said.

Thanks for all the replies~... This was done in S.D... I now know more about this type of stuff.... and I will religously go over the newbie section... Thanks to all the responses!!

Brother, you got PWND!

If she advertised $$$$/hr., it should have been all inclusive.  You got scammed with the classic upsell, which can happen if you fail to read her reviews, and not know what to expect beforehand.  Hope you didn't pay these extra fees, and told her to hit the road.  Also consider mentioning this on your local board, so that others can avoid this scam.

Finally, I suggest you invest the $20 to get VIP, and do your homework before venturing out again.  Unless you like to take your chances with TOFTT, stick with well-reviewed ladies only, especially as a newb...  

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Unfortunately... I did pay up for a BBBJ.... and... I found the lady on Eros Guide... she doesn't have a TER account...... Lesson learned... I'll do my hw better next time... I'll never do that again.... T_T

to pay for a few years of VIP time here.

Pay $50 for 90 days, then you can research at your leisure.  And you will have use of PM.  You can try sending PMs to San Diego guys and ask for more advice.

There are some San Diego women whose current rates are 200 or less for full service.

 

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Study before Every test.. even us as providers do.

Sorry to hear you overpaid.  An expensive lesson, but don't let that deter you.  Regarding Eros, there are many ladies there with great pics and write-ups, but if they are without reviews, you are taking your chances just as if you were using CL.  You TOFTT, and that is appreciated.  Make sure to post an advisory on the SD board so that others can avoid falling into the same scam.  Keep your chin up, and good luck!

S.D.? San Diego or South Dakota?  San Diego is also known for their scam artists and upsells.  Not sure why that is.

where is this manual at, or do I have to be a member ?

Also check the regional boards to the left.
skb

Go to the top of this page...Acronyms and newbie manual link...

Yeah.  I got banged with an upsell in Vegas once and I know better but I was horney, a little high and stupid.  And I didn't have access to TER in Vegas.  Next time I'll go with a list of numbers to call.

spend some time reading multiple pages of advice here on TER.  Upselling is a frequent topic.