And if Love Goddess hadn't cut out early to start the long weekend along with everyone else with any sense while I sit at my desk here, I'm sure that she would have moved this.

That said, the best way to address that concern is to stick to well reviewed providers whom you will find on this and similar boards.

I suggest you get VIP membership so that you can check out their reviews.

have multiple reviews by guys who also reviewed a bunch of other providers.