As long as you pass screening and agree to book an hour of their time...

On the other hand, there are meet and greets.

The cost is usually just a token donation or bring some food and drink.

Check out the meet and greet board for affairs in your area.  You will have to be sponsored to get an invite, so I suggest you get to know the hobbyists and providers in your area.

Participation on the boards is a great way to do that.

Chemistry is a big deal to me and I blow either really hot or really cold.  Is there any precedent among providers where they meet you for a drink?

I had a provider who invited me to go get a drink, after a session once, because her friend was using the room right after we finish. The Chemistry was still going after the sex, so we just spent 40mins just talking.

But if you call a provider asking if we can just go have a drink, and she never met you. She may think you're just wasting her time.

really new here, guess getting to figure out favorites can be expensive, but might as well enjoy the ride.

I get those silly emails... Asking a provider to meet without paying her time just to check her out and see if you feel chemistry is not only ridiculous but insulting. It's happened that gentlemen asked to meet for a drink to feel chemistry out but they always understood that our time must be paid for. Match.com might be a better option.

Hanging out after a session off the clock is another topic here...

you buying me a drink is TOTALLY out of the question?

I'm going for beauty tune up soon I'm broke... )

chill, cleo, that's why it's called the newbie board.  see you when i'm in toronto?

And now you know better:P

more nothing less.  What happens between two adults is up to them.  (wink) (wink)

Most ladies have a drink and play rate or a lunch and play rate.  Check their web site for details.  Be sure you have VIP to read the details in the reviews.

sure a newbie should see such a hottie until he gets some experience under his belt.  A true reason to visit Toronto.

Cleo, you are my kind of girl!

Just last night something like this came up.  I'd seen a gal for a second time in a week and we'd clicked in every way.  She saw my car and said she'd love to go for a ride in it sometime.  Later, I e-mailed her and mentioned I'd love to, but wouldn't want it to take away from our play time (my way of trying to subtly say I'd love to but wouldn't want to pay for it.)  She replied she'd never expect to be paid for that time as "it would be greedy."  And she was NOT insulted at all, though later I said I was sorry if I'd implied that because I actually really like her (totally true.  She's married to a former client and I see why, from his point of view).  Point being, ya never know.  But don't try it up front because she doesn't know you, let alone like you.  At some point, if the chemistry's been right, pop the question.  All she can say is "no."

Don't offer, let the provider ask. It can be awkward having to say no to a client about that. However, when I am traveling and I have time after a session it has happened to me to ask as client to go for an off the clock activity and of course letting him know that there is no charges. It all depends in what city I am in and what my schedule is like and what my rapport with the client is. I hate this to be known because those who I don't offer time off the clock may feel like I don't appreciate them as much which isn't the case at all.

I have never asked for a "Freebee" drink to meet a lady. However. After a session or two, when it is clear there is a connection, I have been so bold to inquire if I could take her to lunch off the clock before we retire to our one or two hour visit. 95% of the time I have a wonderful lunch and a fantastic visit.  I have always believed the answer will be NO unless you ask.

That's my philosophy in life too! Worst case scenario the answer will be no. I just feel bad having to say that no and having that being interpreted as rejection while it's not the case.

Would love to take you for a ride sometime, cherie!  I mean...in the car!  No!  I mean both!  Aww, shucks !

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Don't worry, cherie, you are on my short list!  I'll check out your schedule for the Dec. 19-Jan. 4 period and let you know.

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Hmmmm.  Nothing on your site for those dates.  What gives?  PM me?

I would be avail in Toronto but won't be touring during that period.

Sacre bleu!  Mon Dieu!  Merde alors! I will await your return to these parts, cherie!

Thanks for clarifying, my dear!  I'd hate to think you get motion sick doing anything else!

And I still have some good mileage left so won't hang up my g-string this next year

quite a few times before and I have nothing to do after seeing him I might have a drink.Most gentleman I see request enough time to have a drink within their appointment time.There was one exception with a gentleman I talked to here and on email and never seen before.We had great conversations and a strong chemistry so when  we finally met I did have a drink off the clock.When I left the gentleman surprised me by compensating me and requesting to see me the next day.I would not meet a gentleman for the first time off the clock for a drink for him to hope we have some chemistry.The gentleman that I have seen have requested to see me because of my ads,website,reviews,pics,etc. so they already have an idea if we have something in common or if they are looking to try something different.I do not know many ladies that do not want to be compensated for their time whether it is a drink or dinner with a gentleman they have never seen before.

It use to happen to me at least once a month and it's not fun to chase the web site, the person... I now put a water mark on all my new pics but some advertisement sites won't accept that. But I always get something about my site stolen wether it's for a TV show, a scholar paper some example of some sort somewhere... Too much attention for my own comfort.