Thanks perfectstorm, I was thinking when I make the appointment and we meet I would jusy say that I'm looking for is legal massage and see what happens. Just starting out I feel like there's a bullseye on my forehead, just don't want to deal with any issues. Thanks Again
I've been Looking a BP for a few weeks at the bodyrub adds and decided to check out the reviews so...I just signed up for a TER account. My question is how safe is it to schedule a time with a well reviewed provider in Minneapolis, just do not want to have any issues with LE. I'm not looking for all the extras, just want to have a safe first time experience. Maybe a stupid question but just looking for some words of encouragement.
Now what is your definition of "well reviewed?" One or two reviews with high scores is not it. Those could be written by the provider herself, or a friend, pimp, etc. My idea of "well reviewed" is 6 or more reviews, and at least half of them writtten by reviewers with a handful or more reviews themselves. You will also need VIP membership here to properly read reviews, and get the info you need.
If she is well reviewed here, she could probably be ok. Make sure she screens for your safety, it may sound ridiculous but lack of screening means problems waiting to happen if you know what I mean, second, once you have been screened and you have the general location of her incall, make sure it is on a safe area, avoid motels or open atrium situations were other people can be watching who goes in and out (Pimps and LE more likely). Last, always follow you gut, if you don't feel comfortable or if some reds flags appear during you interaction with her on either phone or in person, do yourself a favor and abort the mission. Do not discuss anything inappropriate over the phone, text email etc. Read her reviews entirely to make sure that you know enough about her before you guys meet. It shouldn't be too complex if she is a legitimate provider/massage girl, because they are experienced, she should put you at ease from the very first minute.
Thanks for all your help... I do have a VIP account and looking at providers that have over 20 reviews and a current. I did try to setup an appointment with one but are schedule did not work out. She did't ask for any references, seem kind of odd.
If she has 20 plus reviews, I wouldn't be too concerned about her not asking you for references. One thing is she could have screened you in other ways. Another thing is maybe she didn't screen, but if she has 20 reviews, and she has no info on you, then her not screening puts most of the risk on her, not on you. If this was a TOFTT with an unknown lady with no reviews, then that is a different story as you would be at as much or more risk than her. One additional note, is that you are looking at massage girls and generally (I said 'generally' meaning this is not always true) massage girls screen less than escorts.
I made a request for an appointment ( 4 days In advance ) and she sent me the address but she was not there, just was odd. The place was a regular massage retail location in a very nice building. We keep e-mailing after trying to setup a new date but we just can not set a time that works. Thanks for helping out... Just not sure if it feels right.
The fact that it was a in a regular retail massage place makes even more sense that there was no screening.
In any case, it is always good to go with your gut. If something doesn't feel right, maybe you should just move on. Now that you have VIP here, keep researching and find someone else. Maybe after getting more experience elsewhere, you may want to double back and try this one again, if you feel better at the time.
Thanks perfectstorm, I was thinking when I make the appointment and we meet I would jusy say that I'm looking for is legal massage and see what happens. Just starting out I feel like there's a bullseye on my forehead, just don't want to deal with any issues. Thanks Again
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