I do Outcalls and sometimes pre-booked incalls.

My website CLEARLY states that one the top line of rates and info.

A well reviewed gent contacted me and wanted an incall, today (2hrs). I told him that I did not have an incall location today, but I really did want to see him.

I suggested a nice place that has a luxury feel and look and we could meet there.  He sounded like he was going to and suddenly we were disconnected and no response back.

So the question is (and I would like to hear from both you guys and ladies):

Do you think he was expecting me to spring for a last minute 4 star?  Do you think it was tacky that I tried to negotiate a reasonable option?

What is the win-win solution to a situation like this?  Of course, I know that one of the obvious solutions would have been to say that I don't offer incalls and leave it at that but he was talking 2 hrs and the reports say that he is really nice. hhhmmm?

I don't like missing out and I like to learning how to avoid it in the future.

Nevertheless, it was a bit rude to close the chat and never get back with me.

I really dont think he frequents this board, so please tell me what you all think of situations like this.

Thanks.

He wanted an in-call, but you were not set up to do that.  You offered your terms for an in call (Many gals insist on four star or better.), and apparently he was not open to them.

He should have said that he was not interested and made a polite goodbye instead of hanging up unceremoniously.

He's the one with the tacky problem, not you.

have your policies and protocols and the hobbyist was trying for something else.  It is understandable and cost-efficient that ladies only offer incall on certain days, if they don't have a regular incall apt.  The guy wanted a different day.  So, he needs to move on.

You could give him the benefit of the doubt and think he was calling from a cell phone and he hit a dead area.  Another thing that could have happened is that while he was talking to you, his boss or SO may have walked in on him and he had to hang-up quickly.

Good luck to you.

Have to get the hotel (ie register, etc with his credit card) which most guys won't do.  I only do prebooked incalls as well and I use priceline all the time which you can book same day up until 11pm.  I always get top hotels with 3-4 stars and rarely spend more than $70 which s great

No, You did everything right. You abid by your rules . Thats the best way to go

I don't think you did anything wrong.  You were nicely trying to arrange what he asked for.  If he disconnected intentionally, that was rude to say the least.  If he was indiscrete, & was forced to disconnect because someone came in, then it's understandable (forgiveable).  

He may try to reestablish contact...  if so you can start over.  He may not if his security was breeched, in which case you'll probably never know.

You did nothing wrong.  Carry on!
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Thanks TER fam, unfortunately, he never called back or anything, but that's okay. At least, I know it wasn't me.

The only thing that I would do next time is IF it is for a longer lesson, let a fellow know clearly that I would compromise for the cost of the room by taking it off the session.

For a regular session, I would just try like I did, and just move on.

I've tossed around the idea of getting an incall
location and it maybe something I consider in the not so far future.

I actually like doing Outcalls and never had any problems getting into anywhere but is somewhat limiting.

Thanks, I now I've let go of that "Was it me?"
feeling. LOL.

A lot of men looking for incall want it at the spur of the moment, so if you are not ready then, you'll lose them.  That's just how it is.  You can either try to cater to everybody and drive yourself nuts, or realize that you can never please everybody.  

Also, there'll always be things you don't understand, and you don't want to try to understand because that's just human behavior.

That's  actually a good question and one I've been playing around with myself for the right answer.

My answer is usually that if he wants to see me for outcall it's his place at his expense and I've done pretty well with that.

For preferred clients I will get the room set up myself, however, because I know they're good for it.  But that's rare exceptions and not the rule.

You did nothing in the least bit wrong.  He asked for incall and you were willing to provide eventhough it sounds like you werent going to provide such an service on this day.  If he just hung up on you, that shows his tacky behavior.  Of course I wouldnt call him back at a later time...but keep a note of what happened and if he is to call at a later date..I would ask what happened.  Otherwise if you never hear from  him..Its his loss.

maybe im misunderstanding something...but i dont think the problem was with prebooking.  i think it was because she was more than ready to prebook and he suddenly disconnected.  As for myself i like prebooks the best.  its only when they dont show up, its a real pain. (Which thankfully has only happened a few times).  Please dont think prebooking is tacky..That it is not.