I am new to this hobby and I do not like to take unnecessary risks. I have read very different opinions about dfk and DATY and STD transmission. They both seem to be relatively low risk practices but again it depends which doctor you ask to and which blog you read. I would like to hear from the most experienced hobbits what they think about the matter. I am a pleaser by nature and I would love to daty but it still feels uncomfortable if I do not know the person well. Thanks.
Like you, I am a pleaser. I get lots of pleasure from watching a woman twist and turn while I use my mouth to pleasure her girly parts.
You'll have to decide if the pleasure is worth the risk for you. No one else knows your personal situation or the ramifications for you if you do contract a STD.
Every "Sister in Arms" should Screen monthly...if not that Sister wont be in her Dollhouse for more than six months. No one likes a dirty housekeeper...
I read a blog written by a Dublin escort who said the true answer to that is, "I want you to just give me the money and leave." Nevermind the nutting...
Daty is pleasing to the guy, plain and simple. That's why we don't give orgasm discounts when we have one. (and why we usually answer, "I like pleasing you. What do you like?"
To be honest she just wants the money. The faster you nut, and get out the door, the happier she'll be.
Make it to her incall on time, dont draw attention yourself when going to her room, have the correct donation, be clean, be respectful, get your nut and go don't try to go over the time limit,
Many of us are here at least partially because we enjoy full GFE, and this is a good place to find what we are looking for. If we have any sense, we have gone through the calculation that you are making, and we have decided that the enjoyment more than balances out the risks.
Yes, each type of activity carries different types of risks, but I have decided that DFK, BBBJ, and DATY are important enough to me that I am willing to take the risks. I have been at this a long time, and I have never caught so much as a cold. Am I lucky, or am I just evidence of the very low likelihood catching something?
I feel that I protect myself to some extent by sticking to well-reviewed providers who have been at this for a significant period of time. I have not been able to find statistics to back this up, but I honestly believe that I am in no more danger of catching something from a mature, careful provider than from a random civie. I actually believe that my risks are lower, but I have no evidence to justify that belief.
Anyway, this is how my reasoning leads me to be comfortable with my behavior. I would never suggest that anyone stretch beyond their comfort zone. There are plenty of ladies who will be happy to adjust to your wishes regarding safety.
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I would add to my previous post that I am even more certain than ever that I am far less likely to catch anything from a well-reviewed, experienced pro than from the cute little civie you may run into in a bar or at work. A fave of mine recently completed her usual testing for every disease that you could catch from another person. As usual, she is negative for absolutely everything. Yes, dammit, I have seen her results with my own eyes. Stop believing all of the bs you hear in the MSM. I firmly believe that I am less likely to catch something from a pro.
There are two things that can ruin a "Lady Of The Evening" or "Lady Govida's" rep . 1) If she has contracted a back alley issue and Not remedied that Fast.....! 2) If she is Pinched by LE..because she is a risk to her clients privacy. Not to mention the fear that other Sisters in Arms may harbor towards her. Where this art form is Legal in the Brothels in Nevada,certain Canadian regions,Caribbean,Thailand,The Netherland,etc . Most sisters are tested and given a Health card..Maybe oneday the USA will wake up and drop the social stigma,loosen the laws? Not!!! In ten or fifthteen years this may become legal.? Ala (Gay marriage?). It has more to do with Public health,Taxes/business licenses and discretion over all.
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