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spinman91 61 Reviews 300 reads
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It's not that like it was a problem before (the way she was before was perfect for me, otherwise this wouldn't be an issue) it's just, she's such I an excellent provider and I know I will have a great time as I did before, but I just think it would increase the experience by a significant order of magnitude. Also I just noticed it after I had already set up the appointment and I don't want to cancel on what should be a minute detail, especially something so personal, or lie about why I would be. I guess, I'll just have to hope she remembers how she was last time, because I'd really rather not miss out on her before I go home for winter break, just for something that should be a triviality.

spinman911857 reads

I'm about to get re-acquainted with this provider, I don't know if it's appropriate at all to discuss her grooming which was fine last time but her recent pics show a lot more hair than I would prefer, and I hate to be a stickler, but at the same time not disingenuous. Again not looking to offend anyone she's a very good provider, I know I shouldn't worry about it but, I do.  I guess it's because I'm young. Any suggestions?

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Zangari409 reads


 I'm not sure there's a nice way to mention a trim without being intrusive. But If you're going to mention it at all, then go-for-broke.  Tell her you'll pay an extra $100 if she shaves it for you.  --z

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spinman91329 reads

exactly like I said the way she had it before didn't bother me, and I don't want to offend her, but at the same time I know what I like.

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Zangari329 reads

Posted By: spinman91
exactly like I said the way she had it before didn't bother me, and I don't want to offend her, but at the same time I know what I like.
If the 'way she had it before'  = shaved, then that's easy.  Either she will or she won't.  The problem with a 'trim':  She  has no idea how much to trim in order to please you.  She's not going to remember 'the way she was' at your last session.  So keep it simple: offer to pay her to shave it.  But you need to think this through. If she says 'No', what's your next move.  Are you still going to see her?   --z  

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spinman91358 reads

not shaved trimmed enough that I can enjoy myself down there, but I get what you mean I guess I'll just opt not to say anything save mentioning I want to discuss a particular and don't know how to go about it given the nature of it and hope she's as understanding as I recall, and plus I fear if I make the offer you suggest she'll want to discontinue seeing me which is something I'd rather not happen over something so trivial (Just going to have to suck it up, no pun intended), but I thank you for your reply it's always good to compare notes if you will

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Bostonguy57390 reads

If there is something that you don't like about her why are you seeing her again?  It's really not appropriate for you to discuss, or criticize, her personal decisions on her appearance.  How she wears her hair, any of it, is pretty much her business.

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spinman91301 reads

It's not that like it was a problem before (the way she was before was perfect for me, otherwise this wouldn't be an issue) it's just, she's such I an excellent provider and I know I will have a great time as I did before, but I just think it would increase the experience by a significant order of magnitude. Also I just noticed it after I had already set up the appointment and I don't want to cancel on what should be a minute detail, especially something so personal, or lie about why I would be. I guess, I'll just have to hope she remembers how she was last time, because I'd really rather not miss out on her before I go home for winter break, just for something that should be a triviality.

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Businesses346 reads

And tell her how you prefer that or something.
I'm sure she'll get the hint.

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spinman91287 reads

Again it's more about her particular situation, that deals with her security and by association mine. As this might raise a red flag so I figure I'm just gonna have to hope she remembers how I liked the last time *knock on wood* if not, oh well, and as much as I like DATY,  I know I'll have a great time with someone I share an astounding number of items, regardless. Thanks for the reply it's much appreciated.

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CaseySterling408 reads

Chances are she's not going to get rid of any hair JUST to see you. Either tough it out or find a new provider :(
I have a few guys wanting to schedule with me but they want "a full bush" I inform them I haven't had a full bush since 19 and it will take me 4-6months to grown one!

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spinman91333 reads

Thank you, in retrospect I don't know why it even bothered me, I guess I've been under a lot of stress lately, lack of sleep, and a myriad of other stressors that it set me off to focus on this detail in particular. I believe the term is displacement and I really would feel bad about cancelling for something like this especially when I had to do so before with her, for two legitimate unforeseen medical emergencies which thank god I can never happen again, unless the laws of nature decide to stop working. And to make something up just for this just seems wrong. Plus she and I have too much in common for me to even worry about this with so many other things on my plate right now. It's just this was supposed to be my early X-mas gift, but it's not happening until mid Dec so I think I might be alright anyway.

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spinman91336 reads

plus with the other request I made of her I'd don't think she'll be happy if I even mention anything on the subject.

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London Rayne330 reads

change that just for ONE person, but you never know. Many guys seem to like hair these days because they grew up in the damn 60s and 70s, but if a guy asked me to grow a bush out for him, I would not see him.

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spinman91341 reads

I get it, It's a good thing I decided not to bring it up with her and just enjoy my time

Posted By: London Rayne
change that just for ONE person, but you never know. Many guys seem to like hair these days because they grew up in the damn 60s and 70s, but if a guy asked me to grow a bush out for him, I would not see him.

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