they can be sure to handle the session in a way that benefits you.

There may also be a provider or two who don't want that responsibility, and would rather you see a provider who is comfortable with that.

If it's your first time delving into the hobby world, there is nothing wrong with indicating to the lady in your initial communication to her that this will be your first hobby experience. To that end, you are better off finding a well reviewed, experienced provider, who can guide you through the entire process from start to finish. Remember, she is the pro and will understand what to do at each phase of the session. While it's certainly not mandatory to tell the lady ahead of time that you are a hobby virgin, since you will be extremely nervous and awkward, it will at least explain to the lady why you are acting as such. Excessive nervousness and or unusual behavior could wrongly signal to the provider that something is just not right (i.e. that you might intend to harm her or cause some trouble). If you tell her up front that this is your first time, she will completely understand your nervousness and behavior.

Now if you are a sexual virgin, I am not sure hobbying is the right approach to breaking your virginity. Sure you want to get laid. But remember, all of us were nervous the first time we had sex; you don’t need the added anxiety of seeing a lady, understanding the entire process on top of just trying to have sex.

I personally think that being a virgin is great!As far as telling a provider, I don't think it would make a big difference, but I guess honesty is the best policy! (I GUESS?).
Either way you should be just fine.
MUAH!
Savanna Cruz.......

When you use the term "virgin", does that mean you have never been with a woman before, or never been with a provider?  Either way, you will be as nervous as hell during the first few minutes.  If you have chosen a well-reviewed and experienced provider, she will pick up on that immediately, and will give you some time to get over your jitters, relax, and enjoy your encounter.  Follow her lead, and your will leave happy and satisfied.

Re: Should I tell a provider

For your first time you want to be with an experienced lady who has been in the biz for a while.  Usually these gals are in their 30's or early 40's and know how to treat a guy right.

If you "have never been with a woman", you should tell her.  You should book with an experienced lady who is willing to teach you.  I think 1.5 to 2 hours ought to be planned.  

I remember my first uncoordinated civie attempts...  perhaps the tradition of a gent being instructed professionally has merit!
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as a provider, i would like to know. only because i would be a lil more aggressive (not in a scarey way) . I would make all the first moves to ease you into the situation. But the choice is always yours.

the price won';t matter either way, but you want to make sure your first time is memorable and very satisfying


bridgette