i understand in this business there are ups and downs but how come some hobbyist feel the need to deliberately set me up i have girlfriends who are providers who are white and they dont get this b.s is it becuase i'm ebony ir becuas ethey are assholes besides from picking and screening 60% of the time i find my appts to be great but the intentional harrasment is gettin to me a little in one instance my life was in danger is ther any reasoning behind calling someone just to cause harm instead of some fun what kind of ass dos this just had to vent that

I don't see this as a racial issue at all. A client that "sets you up", or "threatens you" is an asshole no matter what race. Screen better, and ask for references.

I would agree with smelly... I do not care what color the person is, and I believe that most of the guys are the same, however there are some who are cruel no matter what color you are... pick your friends careful.... and good luck

You may want to put up a weekly ad on your local board, and get active in posting. You may find some local gents who will treat you right.

let me know if you are not VIP

Better screening is the key, also what type clientel are you attracting with your advertising.

i don't mean to be rude, but she didn't use punctuation even once.. i'm not understanding what she's trying to say. is ladyofthehour saying that men threaten her? that's really messed up, but unless they make racial slurs to her, i don't see how it's related to race.

kinda sad when one has to use the race card for everything that goes wrong in their life

I do believe it all boils down to how you advertise and who you attract by that. Screening is absolutely key in this biz. Screen well and you will be better off. If they do not pass your screening you don't want to see them anyway. References are key...Good luck.

Nicole

no im not i just joined

Yahnk you all for the insite i will take all your comments in consideration i have a better perspective in some posts it was said i dont screen well i think if i screened anymore folks would think i was a Leo but anyhow this was interesting to post my thought and see the the point from someone elses perspective t

its just the opposite. Hobbyists get wary if you don't screen; LE doesn't. They just want you to show up.