I believe that is exactly what happened to me. I contacted a provider that I had not seen before and I was told that my # was blacklisted in that area as LE. I do believe that this was a result of my review of another provider, as I am certainly not LE. I will still give honest reviews, but I may try to be a little more careful about how I say some things, as Yosodhara pointed out. As I recall, when I wrote the review of the provider I believe may have blacklisted me, I was a little drunk and I may have said some things a little too harsh.(She was smoking cigs and drinking Mad Dog 20/20 in our session though! The shit was crazy and I just could not help but to mention it in the review!)
So I went on my second visit to an incall provider who is well established with lot of reviews on this site and the local board. Every review said that her appearance was great. She was hot etc... I get to her place and see that she did not look like the "new picture" at all. She had a pleasant appearance but she was bigger in real life. In her case the majority if it had gone to her lower body. The visit and services were nice but when she switched to K9 I lost my erection because it looked like her ass was trying to eat me. I left feeling disappointed because her shape was nothing like what she advertised. I don't want to harm her business but I don't like the idea of a new hobbyist like myself going into that same situation. Do I post a review or do I just go on with a lesson learned as a newbie?
Well, that's what reviews are for. As a provider, if someone is unhappy with a session I would like to know about it before it gets blasted all over the internet. A polite note to her will be appreciated. And when you write the review, saying things like "it looked like her ass was trying to eat me" is highly subjective. Another client may think her ass is the best ever.
Absolutely this is all subjective. Some guys love a big ass and say she's a 10.
Absolutely write the review and be honest. The best thing for any negative comments is to be as factual and clinical as possible. Do not assume, suppose or anything else. Say her ass was (lot/little) larger than suggested by the photos. It was firm/flabby/speckled/etc...
Be VERY careful about contacting her in advance, as suggested, about your comments. Some ladies are cool and roll with it. Others will come after you. If this happens, at best they put you on their personal DNS. Some get crazy and can end up listing you in the National Blacklist.
I believe that is exactly what happened to me. I contacted a provider that I had not seen before and I was told that my # was blacklisted in that area as LE. I do believe that this was a result of my review of another provider, as I am certainly not LE. I will still give honest reviews, but I may try to be a little more careful about how I say some things, as Yosodhara pointed out. As I recall, when I wrote the review of the provider I believe may have blacklisted me, I was a little drunk and I may have said some things a little too harsh.(She was smoking cigs and drinking Mad Dog 20/20 in our session though! The shit was crazy and I just could not help but to mention it in the review!)
Reviews imo shouldn't be to hurt or hype but I mean just be honest as possible...that's the best you can do like others said that's what reviews are for. If she looked nowhere near what you expected say so.
Rather than focus on your dissapointment about her caboose, say something like:
"She had a nice big ass, much bigger than her photos make it appear."
This will alert the small ass guys that this is not the gal for them, and the big ass guys (Of which I proudly claim to be.) that this is the gal for them.
She could not hold such an innocent statement against you either.
As suggested previously I think you should chose your words carefully but DO review her.
As a provider I take a new round of pictures every 1-2months. Just so if any changes do occur they are not surprised!(a tan, lost a little weight...etc etc)
Don't attack her in the review simply state "In my opinion I think she looked a little heavier than her pictures." In your opinion is subjective and they can chose to believe it or not. Reviews have to be honest otherwise what is the point?
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