Is it customary for a hobbyist to ask a provider if they want to be reviewed prior to posting, or is it okay to just post a review?  

Obviously, in this case I'm referring to wanting to post a positive review.

If they have a problem with it, they would have asked TER to take them down already.

On the other hand, they may not even be aware of the reviews, so perhaps it is best to ask.

I recently met a very nice tantric provider who did have a couple of reviews which she was not aware of.  Despite the fact that those reviews were a key reason I saw her and we got along famously, she still requested that I not review her, which request I am honoring.

I think, unless she says, "Don't review me", I should review her. If nothing else, it may make your next pre-screen easier.

some ladies do not like reviews and like to remain low key.  Therefore, asking at the end of the date is appropriate.

You will be surprised how many men do not like to write reviews and us ladies do appreciate them.  Personally I love to read them, it reminds me of our adventure and will get me all worked up again.

However, most importantly it really does help you out as well as the ladies you are wishing to see do check this out.  Also, if you are an extremely good boy, hehe, you may even get whitelisted.  But don't ask the lady to whitelist you...that is just tacky and all ladies have different criteria on doing this.

Bella

Enjoy your experience.

Thanks all for good responses.