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Re: Requesting certain attire?
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I"ve made attire requests for past appointments. On one occasion I brought a sexy nightie for the lady to wear(I had gotten her size from her website). I think most ladies will try  to accomodate a request you have, if it's within reason.  If she doesn't  own an outfit you want her to wear, you could purchase it for her.

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How appropriate is it for a client to request that a provider wear certain attire for an appointment?  I am a huge fan of sexy lingerie (babydolls, garters, stockings).  I would love to see a provider wearing it for our appointment, but I don't know how it will be received if I request it.  Any thoughts or opinions will be appreciated.

If you want the provider to wear a specific outfit, just ask her while booking the appointment.  It goes without saying that you shouldn't mention anything sexual.  Simply give her a description of what you want her to wear.

It never hurts to ask- most ladies are more than happy to accommodate! That said-- Certain requests (ie. "garters and stockings," "something red," "nice lingerie," etc.) are perfectly appropriate as long as you give her some notice. Other requests (ie. "outfit AB1435 on page 120 of the Victoria's Secret Catalogue," "a lace black bra, matching black lace thong, fishnets, and bright red fuck-me pumps," "a pink halter top dress and white Manolos") are not necessarily. If you have something very specific in mind, your best bet is to buy it for her to wear for you. Or, to say, this is an idea of what I like, if you have anything similar that you could wear, please do, or give her more general guidelines as opposed to specific styles/brands/color schemes.

That is kind of how I see it- any other ladies feel free to chime in.

I had a really memorable date where the gent took me shopping and we picked out things together. I then tried them on and modeled them for him- on and off :D But if it's just a basic request, ask!! We won't get mad at you for asking, but don't get mad at us if we can't accommodate an overly specific or short-notice request.

I also had a really frustrating experience where a guy requested a specific outfit from a specific catalogue. Wanting to please him, I ordered it, only to have him cancel on me. It's a cute outfit, but to be honest it's not something I'd wear day-to-day, and I haven't worn it yet.

Best of luck!!~

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Marea

I guess it depends on exactly which lady you're asking, but I'm a huge an of lingerie myself and I *love* to dress sexy for my gents! I actually like taking requests, because then I know I'm dressed in a way that will be well received.

Then there are men who just prefer to see a naked body - that's fine too, but I'll save the effort of straightening my stocking seams for a man who will appreciate it :)

Maxine

Remember guys, do yourself and everyone in the hobby a favor and dress for the occasion.

Wear real shoes in good condition.  A shirt that doesn't have any profanities on it, and pants that are clean and fit well.

Don't be like these guys:

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Most times I will ask the lady to wear a specific outfit that is pictured on her web site.  Once in a while I will request something black, red, etc.

and I agree wholeheartedly with Marere's post regarding special requests.  But caution that when making a request you keep in mind that the request should be reasonable.  I once had a client who said that he likes 5 inch stilletto white high heeled pumps.  Well, I personally do not own a pair and it made little sense to buy a pair for one appointment as I would likely never wear them again.  I've also had clients ask me to pick up a costume for our appointment.  Again, something I would probably not wear again.  In these instances, when you have something very specific in mind, it is best to anticipate purchasing this item for the provider (after obtaininer her size).

In the past I have also had requests for evening gowns that were featured in my photos.  I am always happy to wear them providing the evening calls for the attire.  My evening gowns are generally designer dresses, quite expensive, and not something I would wear unless for an evening on the town.

But, I have often got requests for stockings and garters, leather attire, a suit and business look, or even jeans and tight t-shirts.  Also for other outfits on my site.  I always enjoy wearing them as it starts the appointment off on a good note with the hobbiest realizing that his desires are really taken into account and that I wish to please him.

Well, if a gent has his heart set on something extremely specific, he can save himself from any possible disappointment by buying the item himself. Besides, most ladies love gifts :)

I wouldn't mind to dress to please. Saves me on knowing what the heck to where next, and also it would avoid any possible disappointement by buying the item himself.

I"ve made attire requests for past appointments. On one occasion I brought a sexy nightie for the lady to wear(I had gotten her size from her website). I think most ladies will try  to accomodate a request you have, if it's within reason.  If she doesn't  own an outfit you want her to wear, you could purchase it for her.

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