I am going through that now myself. What I did was sighn up for a membership with Date-Check dot com.

http://www.date-check.com/faq.asp

This is a third party who will do the employment verification. I asked them to say that they were a Bank verifying my employment for a loan. Now that it is done... there is no need for women to keep calling my job. They can check the Date-Check site for that verification.

This site also helps you out by allowing you to see verified entertainers, and there profiles have links to TER so you can check thier reviews.

I started E-mailing ladies asking if I could see them now that I am a member of this site. The first never E-mailed me back but the second one did. She said as long as I was verified by the Date-Check site she was willing to see me. We E-mailed a couple of times and she is now doing her own screening process on me [My full name and DOB is what she asked for]

She says as long as I pass her screen for first timers she will give me a reference after our first date, a verification on Date-Check after our second date and a white list reference on this site after our third date.

Date-Check is great because I can add escorts to my favorite list and to a gallery for easy access and both they and I can see eachothers profiles. In my profile I put down what kind of clothes I like them to wear, the kind of shoes that I like and what I want from them...like being freindly, submissive and seductive. I can refer her to that site to see my profile so I don't have to say those things in an E-mail or in person/over the phone.

I would start with the Date-Check and go from there. It worked for me in as little as 1 week thus far. I'm on my way buddy!

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Re: Reference Process

Yes you can be sure.  Get yourself an ID either on datecheck or 411 and start having fun....