My hubby and I are going on a trip to Vegas soon and I promised to give him a present, his fantasy.  All of this stuff is so overwhelming and I am completely lost.  I want this to be very special for both of us and am trying to gain as much knowledge as possible to make it the best that I can.

I read the reviews and the primer, but they don't specifically address my specific circumstances or those of, what I guess, are the special issues relating to Vegas. I loved the section on how to handle the exchange and the link to the lingo info, which helps ALOT.

I plan to research the reviews and have already located a few potential providers.  But, I know somethings are no-nos to talk about in the bookings, but how can I make sure that we will actually get what we paid for if I can't discuss it?  The trip alone is expensive, so I can't really afford to pay large sums of money and have it turn out to be a disappointment.  Plus, it is doubtful I would ever work up the nerve to try it again if it were a failure.  Plus, everyone who does couples talks about focusing on the female partner and that is NOT what we want.  I am there to be a fly on the wall and to enjoy the show and to have fun with it all between us.  So, that certainly is something that would need to be discussed before hand wouldn't it?

I am sorry if this all sounds silly or uninformed, but I am actually VERY nervous and just want it all to be perfect.  

BTW, I am rexwonderdog, not my hubby.  Long standing joke between us, just so nobody thinks this is coming from him and not me.  Besides who but a woman could run on this long with a question?