Newbie - FAQ

When to ask the price...
throwstones 10 Reviews 2459 reads
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I know this is a touchy subject, but when is it appropriate to discuss price? I would not feel comfortable discussing during the initial contact, whether it be by phone or email. I am a complete newbie and would prefer to know the price ahead of time to avoid getting to a point where both of us are unhappy. How should this work?

If she has a website or a recent ad, hopefully her rates are clearly spelled out in there. If not, she has left you no choice but to inquire. If she has reviews here, it's perfectly acceptable to ask her in your initial contact whether her rates listed on TER are correct. If she doesn't disclose her rates anywhere and has no reviews, it's best to avoid her completely unless you enjoy taking chances.

Many also post these in their ads.  For those few that don't, check her TER profile and get her rates from there.  If you can't get this info from any of these, that means she has no reviews, and you should be cautious about seeing her...

shudaknownbetter996 reads

If you can't find a web site, there is a donation cost pisted in reviews.  It COULD get out of date, so best to confirm with the lady but will usually be right on.
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... you don't ask about the services because I very doubt that you'll get a straight answer (unless she's a newbie too).  I often get an email or call asking me about both at the same time.  I normally just refer the gentleman to my site and TER.

The only time you should have to talk about price is for extended dates that are not listed on her website.  By the time you should be doing that you should know each other well enough to talk about it.  The price is up to the lady, if it's too much just pass on the date.

I will send an e-mail expressing my interest and ask how much X amount of her time would be.

Thanks to all who replied...many of the girls on City Vibes have no price listed on their site and they are not reviewed here, either.

I guess the best thing is to just steer clear of them...

that's a great question because i've noticed a lot of ladies on eros say call for rates...i prefer to avoid them because i'd rather know ahead of calling to set up a date so if she throws out some outrageous number i don't feel like i'm insulting her by saying "oh never mind, thank you" Not that they may not be worth it, but i think some girls get a little unrealistic...it would be one thing asking for a date with Jenna Jamison who's world famous vs a beautiful local girl paying for her college.  

As much as i've seen ads with woman i really want to meet, if there is no rate listed on the web site...i end up moving on or if their is a email address, see if she'll send it then.

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