If I have a cold I will not work. If I feel I can't give 100% I will not work. If I had a problem down south, I sure as hell will not work.

Asking that question is a double edged sword, you want to know but you could just as easily offend and have her ask you to leave or end up with a very tense session.

And I believe that if someone did have something that they knew about and was advertising and taking bookings, they would lie.

... even asking this question. You've already answered it. It also comes up several times a week.

No, I don't ask ever ask that question. What's the point? Why ask a question you already know exactly how the person is going to answer? Do you really believe a lady who has shown up and about to have sex with you is going to admit to having a disease??? Most likely, you're just going to piss her off and ruin your session.

Yes, we all know STD's can be passed via BBBJ. Each individual has to decide what level of risk is acceptable to them. If you don't want a BBBJ then get a CBJ instead. If you're paranoid about STD's, then I suggest you don't "hobby". Find a nice civvie lady, both of you get tested prior to ever touching each other, and hope she remains faithful for the rest of her life.

Your post is akin to asking "what color is the sky?" and then saying "don't tell me blue because I already know that".

How would you feel if she asked that of you?  It is not in the provider's best interest to be infected with any kind of STD.  If you see quality, well reviewed providers, the risks are minimal.  If you want a covered BJ, by all means, let her know, most will not mind that.

Personally, I have never asked a provider that question, and I never will.  If you are thorough in your research of who you want to see, you should not have to worry about STD's.

Swim

a bbbj and CIM...a bit late to worry don't ya think? That's about as dumb as cumming in a civie girl then asking if she is on the pill bwahahhaa! Do you honestly think if a provider is shitty enough to be escorting "knowing" she has a disease, she is going to tell you? Um, ok. Stupid question.

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I understand that you are concerned about STD's. Common concern in the hobby.

Here is the issue:

Asp's who get tested regularly and are proud of their safety will typically be happy to tell you that they are safe.

Asp's who may not be or are not safe could lie to you, or be offended that you asked the question.

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My suggestion is to be proactive and learn as much as possible about STD's.

I went out and interviewed a doctor on this and I was able to ask my specific questions. The answers were fascinating.

Bottom line, there is an ultra conservative view (ie the CDC) out there and there is a more real view. Educate yourself. Then you have to access the risk and make a educated decision.