Please don't flame me.  I have allways used condoms in relationships.  I have never been with a provider. Do the provider use some sort of birth control as well?

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I do! And I know some ladies that do as well!
But dont think this is an excuse to ask for BBFS!!!!
I hope your concern is about making sure she will not get pregnant even using condoms!

I know some who use Birth Control besides condoms...  I've had others who I know were NOT.  (My introduction to the latter was a lady who spent a long time in the bathroom getting the wash cloth...  She was apparently checking the condom for leaks!)
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Get a vesectomy.  It gives great peace of mine.  Of course, I got one woman pregnant while using a condom and my ex got pregnant while on the pill - she wasn't very disciplined and had other serious character flaws, so I am a little jaded.