So Im using p411 as one of my screening tools... but since im new to all this Im still a little scared. If they have provider Okays on there does that really mean they are not LE or weirdos???

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I think this is true on P411 as well

ultimately what it means is that a provider like yourself has seen the gent and felt positively enough about the experience to give him an okay. She did not get arrested or beaten up or robbed or treated in a way that made her uncomfortable.

there are never any guarantees but that's a pretty good recommendation

I always contact the last 2-3 ladies who gave the okays

I am not seeing a way to view who the providers who gave the okays are?? it just says the guys ID n date he became a memner b how many okays n email....

check the email address and phone number on here to see if she has reviews...

Then contact her...most girls prefer email contact from another provider...and make sure you include a link to your site and reviews...it scares the dickens out of us girls when we have no clue who you are...hey you could be a wife...and most definitely be polite in your emails to another provider...you don't want to get a bad rap as being not soo polite..

Personally there really is no guarantee they are not LE..but I can tell you if they are I will have their information and if I get hurt, etc...look out as I have their information as well..

hope this helps.

ok thanks!!!... but im still not seeing how i can see who the girls who gave the okays are. it just says how many okays were given ... not by whom???

Suggest you use date-check, instead of p411 as I was told by several providers it is useless unlike date-check.

On another note, Ginger, don't you think thats a bit extreme to contact the last 2-3 providers considering they gave their ok? What's the point of giving a client an OK if you are still going to contact the providers? Defeats the purpose, just like it defeats the purpose of providing references