Still pretty much a newbie in the hobbying biz. I've seen several providers and usually for multiple hours (say 2 or 3).
In several cases, as we get near the end, the lady sometimes say, "we can go longer if you like."
How am I supposed to take that to mean? Does it mean
(a) "I'm no rush so if we go longer, it's because I'm enjoying this time and we're having fun."
or
(b) "I'm happy to play some more, but it's another $250/hr please (or whatever is the rate."
I usually bring just enough, whether incall or outcall to meet the previously agreed upon amount, so I'm not likely to have extra $$ on me. (I might have $20 or so remaining on me, so I can't even tip if I wanted to.)
Yet, on several occasions, we've gone way over the time (as in another hour) and then the provider tells me that she can hang longer (or I can hang longer).
Am I doing it wrong, or are we just having a great time and it's been fun? Certainly, we do seem to be having a great time, but I don't want to be misinterpreting the meaning.
if you want additional time she's available to do so, but understand it's going to cost you an additional charge whether it be another hour or half hour what ever she offers.
Jay
Dear LadDeWinter,
I handle this situation a little differently. If time draws near and we are still in the midst of the fun, I will ask him if he wants to "Extend the Session to the Next Level." That way there is no miscommunication.
But many ladies are not quite as assertive as I am. So you need to step up to the plate. You do not want to be branded as a hobbyist who overstays his welcome. Ladies do share that kind of info with each other.
Do not stay more than 5 minutes over your allotted time without making it clear that:
1. You have NO money to add to the donation, and
2. You want to be respectful of her time.
Start preparing to leave. If she wants you to stay longer, she will tell you that she wants you to stay and she doesn't expect more donation.
Believe it or not, sometimes ladies do want a few more minutes with you. But, if you frequently overstay by an hour or more, you are disrespecting the time of the providers you are seeing.
Happy Hobbying,
Sarah Nicole
Dear LadDeWinter,
Thank you for asking this question. The fact that you are asking means that you do want to be respectful of the ladies' time. I hope I didn't come across as too harsh in my original post.
Warmly,
Sarah Nicole
Thanks. Seems like I'm sort of misinterpreting things. Next time, I'll be more specific myself. (In that I don't have any extra $$.)