When meeting a provider for the first time, whether incall or outcall, what is the best way to prove, indicate or show that you are not LE.  Being new I think I mess this part up and not get off to a good start.

That is what screening is for.

Through a combination of checking your personal information out, and checking references from either screening services or other providers, she should have peace of mind.

 Don't even bring it up, it will weird her out.

If your are seeing a lady who screens you before meeting you she should have no concerns about you being LE. Screening in a way, works both ways. If a lady screens you, then she should know your OK and it helps YOU to know that she's probably not LE either. The general concensus is that LE won't bother to screen.

C_K

You write:

"Being new I think I mess this part up and not get off to a good start."

So you don't use the future tense – "I think I will mess this part up" – but the present tense – "I think I mess this part up."

So you messed that part up? A provider thought you were LE? Actually, the way your sentence is written, you imply this happened more than once. When you see providers, they think you are LE?

If you provide more detail, then we can help figure out what you are doing wrong. It's probably something pretty easy to fix, either in the women you are choosing or something in your manner or body language.

that you are okay to see, then she probably doesn't do sufficient screening. If that's the case, you may want to revisit how you determine who you'd like to see. For the ladies to screen us properly, they probably have to do more homework than we do.

If the lady does her screening, and you put her at ease during the screening process, by supplying all the info she requests, and being polite and respectful, than an LE check should not even happen when you first meet the lady. If you are constantly having LE checks at the beginning of a session, you're probably not picking experienced well reviewed ladies.
Good luck

Are you bringing coffee and donuts to the session?

That's funny...thank you!  I have to agree.  When a prospective new client provides me with references, and I check them out properly (wait for a reply from the referral) there's no need to question him upon arrival. We do have to do the checks, and it will balance out.

why you people answer questions about LE to people you dont even know ?

Jesus