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Re: Provider falsely accusing me--now what?
Bodercollie 1173 reads
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Leave things where they are, candor will get you nowhere and just further upset her.

Bozothecat4348 reads

During the past year, I've visited a provider 3-4 times, and we seemed to be mutually respectful.  Though her site says "no reviews", she has been ambivalent about them -- liking positive ones, but complaining when she received those she didn't like.  She once asked me to write one after a session to counter a negative one.

After not having any contact with her for 5 months, she e-mailed me, ranting about how I revised a previous review, throwing insults at me, and suggesting that my wife might somehow be told about my hobbying activities.  I first checked my previous review to verify that it had NOT been altered.  Then I replied to her telling her that I had not changed anything, had not posted any other review of her, and asking her some questions in an effort to see if we could together solve the mystery.  

I heard nothing back.  Should I continue to try contacting her to convince her of my innocence?  Or should I just leave things where they are?

She must be a bit of a wack job to make such an accusation.  I doubt she would see it through, but you never know.

Probably best to ignore and hope the whole thing blows over.

As you can see things are active as always here on the newbie board!!!

Johnny Apple-seed959 reads

The newbie board is more active than the LA board and is fast becoming one of the more active boards.

Bodercollie1174 reads

Leave things where they are, candor will get you nowhere and just further upset her.

and has you mistaken with someone else.  That can happen as "gents" often have screen names on TER that do not match up with their real identities.

Simply letting her know that it was not you, possibly reminding her of your TER handle, should suffice.  She can look up your review for herself, even if she is not a VIP.  

In fact, you should get an e-mail apology as one is due!

Hang in there!

SINfully sinthia

-- Modified on 1/18/2008 9:59:22 AM

Id forget it and go on, its her job to give a good time and if the reviews are bad its her own fault. There is a reason some have 30 pages of great reviews and others have 3 pages of lame reviews.If a provider is annoying trying to set up a date or gives attitude about anything its time to find a new one.

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