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Re: Probably not
markstamper23 1 Reviews 1900 reads
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1 / 17

I've only done incalls before, but have begun to wonder if outcalls might be easier.  I don't have a reliable car at the moment, and even with one, the commute in my city I a hassle. If I arrange in outcall with a girl, would most require me to pick them up? I'd be willing to pay for gas or whatever or the driver or parking if they can get to where I live (fairly centrally located and on a main street). Is this a common arrangement, or do you usually need to pick her up for an outcall? 'Cause the main reason I'm considering this is to avoid the commute.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 448 reads
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3 / 17

You would very rarely pick her up, if she does outcall she has a way to get around and if it's a commute for you it will be one for her so expect to pay more. The bigger thing to consider is inviting a complete stranger, someone who's real name you don't even know into your house, this has been discussed many times here. Before I invited someone into my home I would have seen her several times and built up a level of trust with her. If you have a SO it gets even harder. Women pick up on the smallest clues, the lingering sent of a strange perfume, a long hair where there shouldn't be one and on and on.... If you decide to have somebody over choose wisely.

Posted By: markstamper23
I've only done incalls before, but have begun to wonder if outcalls might be easier.  I don't have a reliable car at the moment, and even with one, the commute in my city I a hassle. If I arrange in outcall with a girl, would most require me to pick them up? I'd be willing to pay for gas or whatever or the driver or parking if they can get to where I live (fairly centrally located and on a main street). Is this a common arrangement, or do you usually need to pick her up for an outcall? 'Cause the main reason I'm considering this is to avoid the commute.

ROGM 449 reads
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4 / 17

Sometimes I pick her up from her place and drive her to my place. Then drive her back to her place Other times I go to her place. It just depends on the Scheduling for both of us. She only lives about half an hour drive from my place.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 388 reads
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5 / 17

Usually they drive themselves, or have a driver, or catch a cab, or take public transportation (depending on the city), etc.

ROGM 506 reads
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6 / 17

My girl hates taking the Bus and Train. When she can go to my place I pick her up and drive her home.

markstamper23 1 Reviews 413 reads
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7 / 17

I don't have an SO, I live alone. I did see a thread about the topic of when to trust a provider enough to have her in your home. A valid concern of course, but I don't think I really have much worth stealing. I'd hide any money I have and I have a pretty small apartment, so it'd be nearly impossible for her to get out of my site long enough to make away with the TV.

markstamper23 1 Reviews 503 reads
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8 / 17

Btw, how much more does an outcall usually cost? I've never actually paid attention to what they say about outcall rates over the phone since I've been committed to an incall anyway each time.

markstamper23 1 Reviews 453 reads
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10 / 17

Bus. Work is only a fifteen minute walk away anyway. Don't really need a car for much.

Posted By: keystonekid
to work without a car?

harborview 10 Reviews 606 reads
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11 / 17

but managed to go through my checkbook.  You also want to take care about any prescription meds you have.  
A person I know lost a friend when the friend's GF stole her Rx...  she did confront the girl & got most of her meds back...   My friend tried to be nice & didn't call the Police which would I have done.  
You also need to check all your locks after guests have been in your house.  

Really incall (you go to her) is usually much better.

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 411 reads
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12 / 17

Obviously as other posters have previously stated, please stick to well reviewed ladies for your peace of mind, to protect your privacy and your personal space..

1192967 45 Reviews 458 reads
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13 / 17

...in call rate. Ex: $300 hr in call $350 hr out call. My experience is limited to my area of the country. One more thing, I always get my rate info from their web site, TER profile, TER ad, P411, or ad somewhere else. The later as a last resort. I use TER for my information source. I've never discussed rates over the phone.  

One more bit of information, there are providers that charge less for out call instead of more. I don't know of many but I know they are out there. Again that information is found on their web site, TER profile, TER ad, P411, or another ad site.

-- Modified on 5/1/2014 10:45:02 PM

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 503 reads
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14 / 17

And you Buy her Diapers and Food, and Get BBFS for 100 Bucks.
Well obviously I am Not Talking about Your Provider. I said it Would be Rare, and I used The word Usually. Now that translated to mean I am Referring To 'most' Providers, not All providers, and Definitely not ROGM's Provider!

ROGM 350 reads
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15 / 17

When you're a nice guy, nice things happen to you.  

Oh and just to let you know, she charges me the same price for going to my place as when I go to her place.

-- Modified on 5/2/2014 12:21:00 AM

markstamper23 1 Reviews 363 reads
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16 / 17

Will definitely heed the advice. Though I figured since I'm switching apartments soon, after I'm done moving everything out of the old, could still make use of it for an outcall before the end of the month, have a lady over, nothing in the apt. but a bare mattress on the floor; heat, electricity, and water all shut off. Talk about a high class date lol. She'd probably half expect a donation in food stamps from me. Maybe not the best idea.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 477 reads
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17 / 17

Some ladies fon't do outcalls at all. Some only do outcalls. Many charge a little more for putcalls as xyz mentioned, but there are some that actually charge more for incall. There are lots of regional variations. We don't know where you are located. There is no standard. Read the website for the ladies you are interested in seeing.

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