Newbie - FAQ

Re: premature ejaculation..
fip213 2952 reads
posted
1 / 14

I haven't got with my first provider yet.. but am worried about premature ejaculation?

What if she's giving you a bj or even a hj and then you cum 1 minute into it after paying her for a half-hour session. Will she let you go again to actually do the real deed or ask you to pay extra for MSOG... What if you can't pay any extra.. did you just waste your 150 for a 1 minute session because you involuntarily shot your load too quickly?

Does it depend how nice the provider is or if this is pretty common, how do they usually deal with this situation?

Sinful1 See my TER Reviews 1094 reads
posted
2 / 14

As I have never offered them.  I guess its up to the lady.  Usually, in Chicago at least, a half hour session is one pop.  Some providers even state this on their website.

The reason is, even if you finish the first time relatively early, between recovery time and the time it takes to go a second round, you will have exceeded the half hour.  

If you are looking for multiple pops, first read the provider's TER profile and see if she will accomodate MSOG.  Then schedule a 1 or 1.5 hour appointment.

While a lady may allow a little extra time for gents to finish the second pop, if they have booked an hour appointment or longer, very few will allow extra time for a half hour appointment.

hound_dog69 41 Reviews 1103 reads
posted
3 / 14

Go for the hour with someone who's reviews consistently mention a 2nd cup. You can't always trust the profile as that is set by the first reviewer, unless changed by the provider, or an admin.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 1137 reads
posted
4 / 14

Assuming you know that you are an early comer, don't let the gal start right off with something as intense as a BBBJ.  Instead, opt for fifteen to twenty minutes of snuggling, kissing, tit sucking, rubbing up against her, etc.  You might even want her to give you a massage or even try your hand at giving her one.  It's all fun and good.

These activities will also acclimate your sexual tension so that when the direct penile experiences begin, you'll be able to hold out longer.

You can shift to about five minutes of BBBJ and then slip on a cover when you are approaching the brink and start the FS portion for a few minutes before comming.

Add a few minutes of snuggling afterwards and you've got a 30 minute session that can't be beat.

quartertone 36 Reviews 1023 reads
posted
5 / 14

Not everybody is going to be interested in all that snuggling. I know I'm not.

ej2600 16 Reviews 776 reads
posted
6 / 14

It's always up to her, which is why you should find out ahead of time. Too often I paid for an entire frickin hour and after 20 minutes of fun I pop and she decides it is all over. No more! I will not even bother to contact providers anymore unless the review says 'yes' next to multiple pops... which is why TER reviews are worth it.

JamesDeenXXX 31 Reviews 1006 reads
posted
7 / 14

If you're worried about that happening...Rub one out the day before your scheduled meeting....I can't even imagine busting a nut after 1 minute...Unless this will be your first time seeing pussy...

fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 1241 reads
posted
9 / 14

But seriously whatever time you have reserved is what you should donate for.  She has held that time and has not scheduled with anyone else so short changing the provider is not correct.  

You are donating for her "time".

DoggieStud 873 reads
posted
10 / 14
Sinful1 See my TER Reviews 1659 reads
posted
11 / 14

got lost.  Usually, a half hour appointment means one and done.

It shouldn't mean you are out the door, just that the intimate part of the session is over.

That's why I don't offer them.  I prefer an appointment where the guy has another serving or too.  An hour an a half is ideal.  One hour with an established client also works.  
However if its a new or inexperienced client who needs time to feel comfortable, then finally finishes about 40 minutes into an hour appointment, and needs 20 minutes to recover, he cannot expect another cup of coffee unless he extends.  

You'd' be surprised how many newbies ask for a second serving five or ten minutes after the appointment should have ended when you've already been thoughtful enough to not watch the clock and rush them out.

SarcasticHobbyist 1321 reads
posted
12 / 14

Just had an appointment this week where it took 40 minutes to pop. Provider asks me if we should try to go for cup two. It's an hour appointment, and I'm the one to refuse. If we got it up, I'd be there for another hour or so.

But I agree with Sin above - half hours have different rules despite what the reviews might say. If it's that much of a worry then wait until you can afford the full hour. Then, do your research and make sure multiple cups are allowed.

fallonkelly See my TER Reviews 714 reads
posted
13 / 14

I offered but he said once it happened that was it!  

I felt bad for him and I think he was really embarrassed.  

I always offer the option to go again as long as time allows, but a lot guys say once it happens that it for at least 24 hours!  

JamesDeenXXX 31 Reviews 791 reads
posted
14 / 14

I hope I never get to that point....My gun reloads on command ;)

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