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Re: Poor Guy...
zn_garden 1467 reads
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Most men who write reviews are very scripted....
"started with DFK, then BBBJ, then moved to cow-girl, mish, doggie resulting in cup #1...rest and recouperate for cup #2...repeat the cycle.

I've seen that soooo many times. Give the girls a break. You guys walk in with a damn laundry list...how scripted is that?

I'd rate me as a "sorta newbie"...you can check my posts - I started hobbying in Jan-07.

Here's what really turns me off:

I read a post from one of our TER members and it's a stimulating "blow by blow" - pun intended - of the encounter.  

I see the provider and damn if she doesn't do and say the same things to me!  Oh, you'e the best, oh nobody does that like you!"  Etc., etc.

I feel like I'm watching a rerun of a movie that I'm now in.  It's a real turnoff.

Do you say "stop saying that?"  Do you complain?  Never see her again?

It made me go soft during an encounter. :-(

You asked this question last week on the GD board. Weren't the numerous responses you recieved enough for you?

What else do you expect us to say? Just because I tell one guy how terrific he is, does it make it any less genuine when I say the same thing to you? I've been known to tell a man that he has a talented tongue and that someone must have taught him well. I've said that to more than one guy, but that doesn't make it any less sincere. If he knows what he's doing, then someone definitely taught him well.

I think you way over analyzing this. And now by posting the same question, I think you are over dramatizing it too. Sorry, just my opinion.

BFE client1353 reads

At the risk of encouraging this thread, I'll put in my 2c which I failed to do on the GD board.

Isn't that the point of reviews?  Why complain? Sounds like she delivered as promised.  This is fantasy play after all.  Sounds like she was encouraging you to enjoy the fantasy.  When I encounter an actress, I join the production.  Try this, "Oh, sweetheart, you are just so hot.  I love being inside you."  I find it hard to believe you don't have a few lines you use on the ladies yourself.

As a newbie myself, sometimes I think I've fallen into the trap on over-analyzing things from time to time, rather than just enjoying each session. Each session is different, and once you are alone with your lady, just try to enjoy the time with her. I've found that when I do that, the sessions are much better for me, as well as the lady  I'm with.

Runningman

Built2Spill1483 reads

Dissed by a provider and then a White Knight.  In simple terms, just don't see her again.  Some women are very scripted, it's how they do their job.  Find ones who are more spontaneous.

zn_garden1468 reads

Most men who write reviews are very scripted....
"started with DFK, then BBBJ, then moved to cow-girl, mish, doggie resulting in cup #1...rest and recouperate for cup #2...repeat the cycle.

I've seen that soooo many times. Give the girls a break. You guys walk in with a damn laundry list...how scripted is that?

I did put this into the other forum but FAILED to see it.  I thought it wasn't accepted there.   Pardon me, big time.

So I asked over here and it looks like it was an unpopular question.   Criticisms can work both ways and I don't have a problem with that - but the quick to jump down my "typing throat" seems a little harsh.

But I'm a big boy and can take it.   And it WAS dished out!

Thanks to all.

It was accepted.  I imagine you are moderated still, so it didn't show up right away.

Here's a link

Thank you VERY much!
I had not seen this :-(
But it sure did result in a LOT of posts!

Over and out on this post and subject.

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