Hi,

Just joined and became a VIP member.  Interested in exploring this hobby.

First question: I am really interested in booking a session with a provider whom I can please as well.  I like giving just as much as receiving.  

How can I broach the subject either before we meet or as soon I walk through the door that I want to learn how to make her time as toe-curling as possible too?  That I am there to learn and practice giving as well?

I ask because it seems like it is extremely difficult to talk about what is going to transpire in a session with a provider.  But I may have an agenda that is different than most clients.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.  Thanks.

…I am all ears. I enjoy a man that is open to communicating his needs. What better way to please him if he is willing to share with me what he truly wants (if that is learning how to please me, and within my boundaries, then please please please away!). I love when my toes are curled just as much as I love curling toes.

You do know who is paying whom, don't you?

Look, I know you want to view yourself as a "caring guy" but you can also take this sort of thing too far to a point where it becomes a head trip. You go to a provider to get your rocks off. They are great at that. But not all providers get off themselves for a variety of reasons, and you could set up a weird vibe if you get too fixated on this idea.

The best way to answer your question is to read reviews and find providers who are described as easily coming, or coming multiple times. Then you have a pretty good assurance of getting what you want.

You're also going to learn over time that getting to know a person is different from getting to know a fantasy. Sometimes it works out the way you want. Sometimes it doesn't. And it's all good.

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No need to make a point of it just engage yourself in the session..Every lady likes being pleased so you will find few complaints..One never needs to talk about pleasing when they are already in the act..

Kisses Haley

a question and answer period, or multiple choice exam. After you are already beginning to get intimate, there is nothing wrong with simply asking the lady what she likes, what feels good to her, or her favorite position. Make it a part of the game, rather than writing a script before you've even touched one another. Suggestions as you go along can be very erotic, and a bit more spontaneous.

As a VIP member check the reviews for DATY & such.  Not much need to discuss it.  I also like to give as well as recieve...  
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