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Re: Perplexed...
Vivienne the Vixen See my TER Reviews 1020 reads
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Thank you for the suggestions !
Viv

I'm a brand new provider (wannabe I guess since I haven't entertained my first hobbyist yet) and all the information I've gotten from other providers is to make sure I get people verified.  I contacted DateCheck, and was declined because I have no references.  
I do not, NOT, want to go the route of BP or CL to find hobbyists, and have yet to find any that will approach me without reviews.  I also do not want to end up snagged by LE if I'm  unable to verify someone. Seems like a big catch 22 here.
Any ideas, suggestions, etc ???
Thanks !  Viv

I will provide one piece of advice, one I wish more girls would heed. Please list on your website where you are.

Her website says she's in the Miami area.  Maybe reading the site carefully is a trick you shoudl heed?

Now for more useful info for "viviene"...

Step 1: Make sure you are attractive enough to generate interest from ment (check...ok...double check that one)
Step 2: set up a website (check)
Step 3: find out how to post on TER (check)
Step 4: post an ad on Cityvibe or Eros
Step 5: in absence of verification site membership rely on work verification until you can build a track record.  Employer, phone number, work website, etc...call the switchboard and ask for the guy...be prepared to make up a story about why you are calling and who you are
Step 6: ask for provider references, contact the providers the guy has been with and make sure he's ok
Step 7: ask the guys you initially see to post reviews and/or if they would mind acting as a reference for you

At this point you will have seen your first few customers and shouldn't have any problems moving forward.  One word of advise though, I'd mention up front in your ads that you are new and that you don't have any reviews.  If not you will be beseiged with questions about reviews.  Given the lack of reviews you might want to offer a discount to guys who are members of one of the other review sites or offer a future discount to the first guy to post a review.

I took a chance on an UTR lady once and it was fantastic, I was her first review and I have already vouched for her with other hobbiest and a verification site.

Good luck and let me know if you need anything else!!

Do not mention in any TER post about offering discounts for reviews.  That will get you banned real quick.  Just tell the guy who contacts you.

Swim

hmmmm . . . I'm just going to assume she added that after she read my post. ;)

-tessen

P.S. but still, a lot of girls don't!

You can advertize on your local board here on TER...  just learn & follow the rules.
No matter who does the work, the process of checking out a potential date is the same.  A lot of independants do their own checking...  and the exact technique does vary some.  I suggest you ask for some mentoring.  You'll need a private way of communicating either PMs (require VIP) or a secure email.  Plenty of free e-mail providers.
A lot of ladies get aquainted here on the boards over several weeks...  you are limited to one ad per 7 days...  but no limit on other communications.  Some level of correspondance...  not discussing money or sexual acts...  is enough for some to consider a date.
Best wishes

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