I have an appointment with a well reviewed lady...but i'm still overly nervous about LE...I know its supposed to be a plain envelope, but what about in a christmas card? wouldn't that be another layer of safety...like its just a gift to an old flame....I hope curiosity does not kill this cat...ty

A card is a good idea friend. Just don't write her "stage name" in it (Merry Christmas Bambi Fawn won't work)!  

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Don't be nervous about LE. If it is a well-reviewed lady, there is no risk. LE doesn't bother with the high end market anyway, except in exceptional circumstances.

I kindof like the X-mas card idea, but she is a stranger. You've never met her. Just bring her the damn cash in an envelope and be nice.

Good luck.

Never, ever, assume, or suggest that there is no LE risk in hobbying!!!  Unless you live in a jurisdiction where prostitution is legal, and exclusively pursue forms of the hobby that are legal, like the rural NV brothels, there is some risk!!!

Granted, most newbies have WAY TO MUCH fear of LE.  I have always said that you are much more likely to be busted by your LE and friends when you hobby, and with greater consequences than LE has to offer!!!

LE doesn't bother with high-end market - .  A few months ago, LE took down a very successful, high-end agency in PHX.  Yes, these jerks got a bit to big for their britches, and there were other issues, like money laundering and guns involved, but you can never predict who LE will target, or why!!!

jazz32

Although I think you also agree that his anxiety seemed a bit misplaced.

That anxiety should never be totally dismissed!!!  LE may never find your out, but who knows what breadcrumbs you are leaving for the SO, friends and family!!!

As long as you don't deduct cost of card )))

XoXo

Lina

It is always wise to be a bit nervous and careful  with a lady you have not seen, no matter how well reviewed she is. I think the main idea is to just have it concealed in any envelope and casually place it somewhere, never hand it to her or discuss it at all.