How has the experience been for guys signing with P 411? Do you trust them with your actual name, to check you out and then destroy? Or do you always use 'reference providers', send money order or cash anonymously? Would appreciate comments.

Very highly regarded by providers in my area.  Believe located in Canada, so yes I trust them.  Sites like that would not survive if we didn't trust them.   I used my CC to pay, no problem, but I have no SO to worry about.  I have 15 provider OK's on there.

Mainly because they have an 800#, so you can talk to someone there and work out exactly what kind of info will meet their needs.  Lots of providers use P411, so it's easy to book directly through them.  Their search function is also good, though I also like the calendar function on Date-Check.  It's easy to get provider OKs on P411, too.  And, as has been mentioned, they are in Canada and so your info is fairly secure.

And I find both have been very good investments for me.

I have never given them my info, in both cases I used a number of references from their members instead.  I paid by MO originally and them went the life membership route on both.  It has paid back manyfold.

I almost exclusively see ladies who are listed on one or the other.  I tend to find they are more professional about how they do business, screening is very simple.  Even when they decide to check on my P411 or DC references they have easy access to the other ladies and the members do seem to respond in a timely manner to each other.

Side benefits: the posts there seem to be much more accurate than the run of the mill ads or personal web sites.  I suspect it is because the services themselves do some control of acuracycy, etc.

Even if I did give personal info, I think I would prefer to give it out once instead of each time I want to meet someone new.

P411 offers a lifetime payment option?  I knew datecheck (and that's what made me choose DC over P411) but I didn't know P411 did.  Also, is there a benefit of joining both?  I'm relatively new to all this.

Thanks, I appreciate it.

Clients who send me appointment requests from p411 get #1 priority. I have easy access to their previous providers. Saves time. No bs. Ladies on p411 tend to be more professional. They can lose their status on p411 if they screw a client over.

Makes my life easier. Plus I see the gentlemen's investment as truly showing that they care about their interactions with the ladies.

I've been away from the board for a while, but thanks. I'll sign up.