Quit hobbying. Men like you are why we have private blacklists. You are better off collecting stamps.

Well, my first experience was rather terrible. The girl took my money and ran. I'm incredibly hesitant to try again. But I wrote a poor review for the girl (obviously), and the next day my p4 account seems to have been revoked. Is this common practice? Even if I did decide to trust another girl, it looks like I can't.

For the most part, although there is one other review for her claiming that she took the money and ran. She doesn't have an overwhelming amount of reviews, but around 30 or so.

She has no white list referrals here.

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I changed my location on p4. Would that raise a red flag?

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P411 doesnt just go around banning peoples accounts.The only time they ban your account is if you are a dangerous person.

It was after p4 hours. But I didn't realize I should report to them anyway. If she did report anything negative to p4 (I believe providers can call after hours???), it's slander.

I'm inclined to believe two other possibilities, the more I think about it. I opened the account last Thursday. I changed my location on Saturday. Sunday the account didn't work. The other possibility is that it was lost. The error I get when I try to login is: "No Active P411 Account Found!"

I would guess that they didn't like that I changed my location only a few days after. However, due to a military career and what my identification says, that's why I changed my location.

LOL denial is not a river in Egypt hon. There are plenty of men out there who move all around the country. P411 doesn't suspend accounts because you move.

That isn't why your account was suspended. P411 will however, suspend accounts when it is reported that the guy acts like an asshat.

PS. Thanks for your service. Now please find another hobby.

despite the legit questions raised by the others who responded.  You have P411's 800#.  Call  them and find out what really happened.  I just don't understand why, if you'd read a review where she did "cash and dash" you went to see her anyway.  What's the point of doing your homework, reading reviews, then not being guided by them to do the right thing?  Sounds like "littlehead-itis." Good luck anyway.

A brASShat?

So, you "opened" a P411 account on Thursday? (Odd that you say you "opened" it, not that you were verified for it.) Presumably that same day or Friday, you saw this provider and immediately submitted a poor review? And by Saturday it got posted in time for her to see it and report you to P411 afterhours?

Check that--I got your story wrong. You said you weren't able to report her to P411 that late, so all of this must have happened on Saturday: You saw her, got ripped off, submitted a poor review, it got posted, tried and failed to report her to P411, she reported you instead. *catch breath* Astonishing!

Please clarify why the hobbyist should be put on a blacklist.  He was stolen from and he accordingly gave the lady a poor review.  To the naked eye, his conduct appears appropriate.

What's your deal? I did absolutely nothing wrong, but it seems like you've made a conscience decision that I am the scum of the earth. May I ask why you've come to that conclusion?

This story is not adding up.P411 does not ban someone for no good reason I am sure they gave him some reason he is not telling.

Please do not try to get sympathy. The other providers know what you have done. YOU SHOULD BE BANNED.


Thank God for  Blacklist and provider boards...

BTW when you treat a lady like you did - it doesnt stay a secret- the internet is a great tool that allows individuals to communicate across the globe.

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Good luck ever seeing another provider with good reviews.  There is a LOT more to this than you are letting on, and you know it.  Men like you...or should I say BOYS like you disgust me.

Right correct me if im wrong as im new to this board but there's alot of slandering going on in this post. Nobody knows what happened on that date apart from the two people involved and I have known cases in the UK where 'ladies' have taken money and run (which is a vile thing to do) and i've also known of 'men' who have treated their dates horrendously.... but i think it's fair to say the gentleman came on this board asking a simple question and it's since got nasty BUT if the lady in question did do a runner maybe she's covering her back with a story about the gent and if he was a bad client then why come on this board being pleasant and asking for help ????? unless he has a split personality and is actually nuts!!!!! Also as i clearly have no idea what P411 is please can somebody help me out with that and where do i need to go on the site to find out how everything works as there are so many codes on here for different things and my heads spinning on the first night, haha

Casey xx

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Well, when said provider has several pages of stellar reviews, its not hard to figure out who screwed up - the newbie jacka$$ who assumed he could treat a lady any way he wanted to because he was 'paying' her, or the lady with a stellar reputation spanning over a year. Who are you going to put your money on?