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Re: One question - did she confirm?
Tungtide69 28 Reviews 917 reads
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no, and I thought that was odd.  I am not that bad looking.  I did email her later that night politely asking if I had broken some protocol. She replied the next day about claiming to have fallen asleep after classes.  She asked me to reschedule which did.  Same pattern happened.  She told me she would be available,  I confirmed, I received no acknowledegement of the confirmation again so I expected her not to show up again. I didn't even change clothes this time. And she didn't.  Bad choice for a first.

I am completely new to this and used the advice I read the alot of the advice from this forum.
I researched for two weeks.  Having no references, I reached out to my first choice (she had the best website and was exactly what I was looking for for my first experience}  via email, politely explaining my dilemma. In the email I asked which screening service she needed me to go through and complimented her website and photos. She responded within minutes and said she would defintely be available at the time I had requested for the 2 hours I requested.  She even offered 3 for a discount. She asked me to confirm and send a photo (odd? I couldn't send her one til the next day) This was 3 days before the scheduled meeting. She never showed.   How common is this?

Happens to guys, happens to girls.  Don't think there are any stats on no-shows, but it still sucks when it happens.  I assume from your post, it was supposed to be an outcall.  Have you tried to contact her about it.  Shit does happen to everyone.

If you don't hear from her, best thing to do it move on.

Swim

I have also been stood up, as have most people at one point or another.

Try another lady.  There are flakes out there...both gals and guys.

You did not complete her prescreening and did not have an appt.  Every lady is different.  I cannot comment on the photo requirement as every lady has her own screening rules.

It's not clear from your post but did the lady actually email you back after you sent her the photo to confirm that your meeting was definite?

Saying she was available at the time you wanted doesn't automatically mean your set until she confirms it. If she had only said the time was okay for her but she was waiting for something else from you then its possible someone else booked her for that time in the interim.

I always say my schedule follows the "lightning rod" effect.  If Wed midday is open, immediately after getting one inquiry or booking an appt, I will invariably get a second request for the same time.  I will book the first client who completes my prescreening.  In the past, I would book the first contact, but learned that some clients never follow through.

She asked me to confirm the time discussed.  Which i did.  I did think it odd that there was no acknowlegement of the confirmation in a email. I did send an email after the missed appointment politely asking if I had broken some protocol.  She replied the next day claiming to have fallen asleep after her classes. I didn't buy it either but said nothing and she hoped I could reschedule.  I did and the same pattern happened.  I confirmed the available time, and once again I received no acknowlegement of the confirmation.  This time i didn't expect her to show up and she didn't dissapoint.  Its all good though.  After reading her TER review again, I realized she doesn't all the things I am looking for.  Bad choice, that is all.

no, and I thought that was odd.  I am not that bad looking.  I did email her later that night politely asking if I had broken some protocol. She replied the next day about claiming to have fallen asleep after classes.  She asked me to reschedule which did.  Same pattern happened.  She told me she would be available,  I confirmed, I received no acknowledegement of the confirmation again so I expected her not to show up again. I didn't even change clothes this time. And she didn't.  Bad choice for a first.

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