Here is my big question, pun intended. I am a big guy, 6'2", 335. Now don't get me wrong, I'm clean, but never-the-less, a big guy. Do escorts care about this? Is there anything I should know because I am big?

Thanks!
The Big Man

We love all men, from all walks of life. There may be some positions that aren't do-able(heheheh)but I don't know of a single girl who discriminates on size. Some of my best gentlemen are big guys...which is funny because I'm very petite. Just let her know ahead of time if it makes you feel better, I don't think any girl would have a problem with it.

Alyssa

Thank you for your kind response. It’s quite the confidence builder to hear these words from such an exquisitely looking lady as you.

I agree that it is a confidence builder to hear that providers generally won't discriminate due to size. I'm 5'11", 215 and sometimes I wonder how they will feel about that. I'm very  new to the hobby and I'm glad this topic is addressed.

I used to hobby at 410+, and never had a problem with rejection due to weight!!!  Today I am still overweight, but a much healthier 260.

Just remember that all of the angles won't work for you with every gal (and it does differ with each lady), and this isn't always due to your anatomy.  If you are dealing with a true professional, "real-deal" provider, she is there to please you, and will let you know what will work best.

6'0" 285 here.  The few poor experiences I have had didn't have anything to do with weight.

I do usually mention it somewhere in the early contacts just in case she might want to bow out, but it has never happened.  The ladies will make you feel like a king!

I can't confirm, but I strongly suspect that they see many more of us (read "old fat guys")than the 25 y/o bodybuilders, LOL

The only negative session I had with a gentleman who was very overweight was very simple. He didn't want to wear a condom because it "wouldn't stay on" or "didn't fit" suffice to say he did NOT get BBFS(bare back full service). I don't care how much you weigh you don't get special treatment for being overweight.  I understand the issue but I would imagine that if you're in the habit of visiting providers I would thing not being able to get a condom to stay on would be a deal breaker. Have not seen him again.

Alyssa

Makes a guy lose his train of thought.....and subsequently sound like a dumb....uh....a dumb.....uh.....dammit, what's that word???


(30 seconds go by)...

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(well past 10 minutes)...


Oh yeah, a DUMB-ASS (see, my point exactly)!!!






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congrats on your weight loss, jazz.  oh and by the way, you're a fairly decent moderator.

Swim

you are probably right about that, PF.  

Swim

sorry about that bad one, Alyssa.  Bottom line, his problem, not yours.

Swim