Newbie - FAQ

How do I know if I'm being screened well?
nyboneman 4 Reviews 2935 reads
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I'm a newbie and recently saw my first provider. I voluntarily provided my personal website as a reference through e-mail.  The info I have on the site is my pic,name,number, occupation and bio. As it turned out this was a great first experience with a generous beautiful provider. What information do most careful providers ask for- and should this determine how I feel about the provider being selective about who they see?

Every lady is different in her requirements, but you should not have any problem now, if you can use your first encounter as a reference.

At the point that someone requires something that you are uncomfortable providing, just move on and enjoy someone else.

You should not really ever need to give more information than you did to your first provider.

If they don't ask for any information, they probably don't screen and they are taking a lot of risk.  I understand some of them ask for info but don't bother to verify it.

but look at it this way:  

If a provider is being very careful, that is an indication that she is very safe to be with.

It's the LE stings that don't give a whoop about who you are, and providers who are so careless as to see just about anyone with a first and last name are also easy prey for LE.

I love you -
You should give hobbyist 101 classes!!

Kisses to you  !

You should always be concerned if a girl doesnt check you out for her safety..

That means, she doesnt have your safety in mind either !

Neurosexy41563 reads

Dear Ciara:
How many different databases would you use to screen someone? When you get a chance also elaborate on your european clients and what you would do in order to screen them? Also what databases would be available to you that interpol would use and also if it were profitable would you keep certain european services on retainer for that purpose?

if I told you all that, id have to kill you.
I had to learn once too, Now, its your time :)

through her expert tuteledge... have taken a blood oath... to never tell... under penalty of death!

True.  Every provider screen's differently.  Some ask for as much as your hospital records and blood type, some go on a hunch, some go by the book and request it all.

If you offer your information up front on the initial contact to a provider, you will get a much more welcomed response and your visit will be much more than you expect.

One.  It gives the provider what she needs to get you screened quickly.

Two.  If the provider has to go back and forth with email requesting information that should be upfront in the beginning, it takes a lot of the stress off her so she can get the appointment set and she has no annomosity toward you for her feeling she has to dig the info out of you...if she does, it gives a sense the appointment is going to be one of those who ask's for everything NOT on the menu and noone likes a battle......

Ask the provider you saw if she will provide a reference for you in the future.  I am sure she will.

Also being involved on a board, such as this or a local board, get's you known in the community.  

TER's regional board for my area gets almost no traffic because we have several local boards that are very good.  My hobbying Gmail account is linked to my board handle on those local sites.

An email from me, along with a reference and a link to my posts on the board has always been more than sufficient, even for ladies that screen heavily.

By now, most local ladies have seen my posts/reviews and are pretty easy about meeting me for the first time.

Good luck, you have taken care of the hard part.  

And it is good form to see the lady that gives you references from time to time.  You see her once, she doesn't owe you forever.

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