Hi guys I'n still a newbie in the hobby.I have seen 4 or 5 providers but I really want to experience the bbbj but I'm a bit nervous.is tbis normal? If so how did you get over it?

Lay back, relax and enjoy it - at least thats what I tell the gents who come to see me.  I love to do BBBJ more than anything else.

If you arent sure if the lady does BBBJ, search the reviews.

behind your back so you can watch your favorite lady do her magic. Encourage her with some sexy comments and soon the fireworks will happen.

When you do your homework, be sure the lady offers BBBJ so you don't get a bad surprise (CBJ).

if you have been with 4 or 5 providers already and havent had a bbbj yet..you are way behind the curve..as the song goes..you are looking for love in all the wrong places..

The review that you wrote says "Finished with a nice CIM"

CIM is NOT inside a condom!

Nervous is normal. Since it is, don't be concerned just ride it out. Be sure the lady you are seeing offers BBBJ and you really won't have to do anything. Every provider I have seen did BBBJ and I didn't have to ask once I got there. It was simply part of our playtime. She just did it. Read some reviews of the lady you intend to see and then read some reviews of others that offer it. You'll see it just comes naturally as part of the time together.

If you're nervous about catching something the risk is there but it is slight. Much less chance of getting anything from a provider than from a pick up at the local watering hole on a Friday night.

Relax, enjoy, then do it again!

I finished that way true but there was no bbbj

Even after 6 years, I am still nervous especially when seeing a new provider for the first time.  No need to be, but I am.  Once I get there, and we talk, nervousness goes away.

As far as the BBBJ goes, if she doesn't do it, I don't see her, that and no DFK are my two deal-breakers.  If those aren't on the menu, no visit from me.

As the other guys said, relax and enjoy......

Swim

thanks I will use all the tips next time.