Hey All,
Not sure if this has been talked about before.
I’ve had some wonder BBj’s from ladies only to be nearly ruined at the moment of orgasm because the little head gets very sensitive and actually hurts if its touched even lightly.
I’m assuming that most guys are the same way, with me the sensitivity doesn’t last very long thankfully, in less than a minute the super sensitive feeling goes away. I know I should have talked about this with the lady before the fun started.
Guys have you had conversations with ladies about this ??
Ladies is this considered general knowledge that most of you know ??
Thanks
Like Melissa said we're all different. I do sometimes get sensitive enough that I need the lady to stop but it's rare. I don't want her to stop. I want her to keep doing what she's doing. I'll let her know by saying don't stop. I have had conversations about it but not every time.
As Melissa said, everyone is different. I think what you're talking about is common but it is not everybody. I bet some guys don't get that at all. I get uber sensitive at orgasm but nothing I'd call painful. It's kinda like ticklish and kinda like an itchy feeling. It can be so intense that I really can't *ahem* do it to myself, but I also don't want it to stop. Like xyz, any time I'm with a lady I'll likely be heard moaning please don't stop, no matter what it is that she's doing. Sometimes, if I'm in the right headspace and she happens to be giving just the right pressure, I'll just keep rolling and cum again in a few minutes.
Also, this is actually a thing. It's called POT in kinkster circles; sometimes POST. There is a certain wonderful porn star who made it her niche and makes great clips of this. She was one of the first, if not the first; and still the best in my opinion. I don't wanna say her name so I get accused of "outing a member" but she does the POT and ruined orgasms. Got pretty famous for it.
You might consider finding a kinky provider, and ask her to tie you down for some focused head play. Who knows? You might like it.
If it's actually painful for you to the point it ruins the experience, I think you should talk about it beforehand. "Shaft only while I pop, please." Or something like that.
Thanks for the info, yea maybe saying hurt wasn't exactly correct more like uncomfortable if too much pressure is put on the head during orgasm.
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I make sure to have a conversation with the provider about what we both want or don't want, our likes and dislikes, and any special sensitivities to be considered.
My Dino Dick (TM pending 
isn't overly sensitive at the moment of peak pleasure (guess I've beaten that out of him over the millennia) but the Boys are sensitive -- so I make sure she knows that while I enjoy some ball play, she should be gentle. Yes, I'm a delicate flower...
The best sensations I have are with a provider who loves CW, has been giving me great oral and then milks the DD after orgasm, continuing to suck me dry and lick me clean.
Damn! Now I need to go make a call...
not till after the ejaculation.
My balls, on the other hand, are always pretty sensitive.
i can only speak for myself, but no such tenderness. Yes, after I cum, if she keeps on too long it feels weird and ticklish, but not before.
I actually have that same problem with my own sensitive bits! When I’m receiving oral, my clit can suddenly become VERY sensitive, and sometimes not in a good way. It can be tough to stop guys when they’re clearly looking to please me— I never want them to feel like it’s what they’re doing, it’s simply my body’s damn reaction.
But look, you’re paying to have a great time. Don’t worry about “the mood” or anything. Just tell the lady you’re with what sometimes happens. She wants you to get off, trust me!
Unfortunately, no suggestions on how to alleviate the problem, but I think communication will ensure you have great experiences regardless.
There's a solution, originally taught in kindergarten for resolving conflicts: use your words. So if you don't like something a provider is doing, you *tell* her. It's really no different than with civvie partners. Granted, you can be tactful about it, like "Can you stop for a minute? I'm really sore now." But under so circumstances do you need to "be a hero" and put up with an unpleasant sensation.
