Hey all! So I just finished this appt and it brought up a very important question for me. When a gentleman asks you questions like "How long you been doing this" and "What were you doing before this" and "Have you been getting a lot of calls", how are you supposed to respond to this? In my eyes it seems kind of innappropriate to be asking that. But I could be wrong! Leave some input please anybody!!

xoxo

I think it is nervous chatter from some men, they just feel the need to say something. Others are curious about the lifestyle, they don't realize that most of us lead quite normal lives out side of our sessions. Answer to your comfort level, if you are not comfortable talking to them about this subject you can easily distract them with your charms

The guy was just making conversation.

Try these answers:
1.  I got laid for the first time when I was in the 11th grade; QB of the football team after the homecoming game.

2.  I was a college student but I thought I'd explore a little before I put my degree to work in the real world.

3.  More calls than I anticipated.  However, I only see special guys like you.

Its a combination of curiosity and chit chat to break the ice.  That's all.  Also, guys find you gals fascinating.

I would not read too much into it my Dear. Just as the others have said, more than likely the guy is just making chatter. Remember if it is after the "event" a man is usually all out of meaningful thoughts. We are the most open and honest after and really could not be relied on for doing anything devious. Think of it like this. You appear very pretty and in the civie world what do guys talk about after? Probably some BS that the guy thinks or wants you two to have in common right? This guy is only talking about what he thinks you two have in common.

When asked several questions, it is up to me what and if I tell them anything.Usually if the guy is really nice and sweet, I answer most of his questions..remember one thing..this is a fantasy..whatever you tell him is up to you..

I actually had a guy ask me if I sat around all day and watched porn..my answer" what do you think?" and then I proceeded to..umm..nevermind...

learn how to answer what you want to and redirect the rest. Turn the tables on him and ask him about what he does, or about sports or his other activities. The key to success is being a good hostess, you have the control you just need to redirect the questions, or suck his cock, he will stop talking...lol

Those are great!!!

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Make up any story that makes YOU feel comfortable.
I usually don't like to hear about the other Johns, but then I don't ask either.

Some dudes love the "slut fantasy" and really want a slutty story (when they ask). Others ask, but really shouldn't as they don't really want to know the truth.

Well, maybe depending on whether you think he might call again, or if you want to see him again...

Be coy... which all men expect women to do at some point, and especially providers. I think we even like it sometimes...

OR

tell him you just got done doing 10 BBBJ2CIM before you kissed him when he arrived...

"tell him you just got done doing 10 BBBJ2CIM before you kissed him when he arrived..."