There are newbie friendly gals out there who will see you.

Perhaps your first date won't be with your ideal match up, but once you get that first date and have a reference, you hand will be stamped and you'll be on your way.

I've been reviewings the FAQ and providers for a few months now (VIP Member) now, trying to get compfortable with making my first appointment.

My two attempts to schedule an appointment were met with "Sorry, not without referrences."
Preferred411 verification didn't matter.

What's a newbie breast-man to do?

A few months ago I was in a similar situation.  

I went on a Las Vegas trip and wanted to get back into the hobby after a long hiatus.  There are many newbie friendly girls in this town, do a little research... they will take employment references.  Since they are out of my state, I felt this was somewhat safe, plus they were very well reviewed providers.  Now I have references and enjoying the hobby again.

Be prepared to provide some proof that you are who you say you are. Some highly rated agencies will turn you away, some will give you an appointment if you check out reasonably sane. Some agencies will provide references if you become a good customer and treat their providers with respect.

Being a P411 member, you can take advantage of its Advanced Search to find Newbie Friendly providers. I just did a quick search, which showed there are 941 newbie friendly girls listed nationally. There must be one who appeals to you.

I realize women are just trying to be careful, but when a gentleman can't even pay to get laid, there's a serious problem with the industry. When did we all become such delicate flowers??

I'm sorry this happened to you. I'll make sure that any visit you make to Toronto is a much more pleasant experience!

Don't use an agency. The risk is not worth it.

Here's the deal. Some women are tighter about references. You're on a verification site. See a couple of ladies who accept you as is, yet will give referals. Do this even if they are not your type; you are investing in your hobby future.

Seek and use true indies. They get all the money. Don't use your real name. Get a hobby name.

Be safe and have fun.



HH

Some of their "newbie friendly" providers are what's called "Basic Plus One," meaning you still need to have an OK from a P411 provider to see them.  However, there are still plenty who don't require an OK to see them.

You do not risk LE problems in Canada like the ladies in the USA.

I suppose he can go to Canada to hobby until he builds a history.

Agreed. Agencies (AKA Pimps) care about the money period. When it comes to bait & switch, upsell, ect. they hold the lead. In the event they get busted, your info is in the hands of LE, johnny on the spot. Don't think for a minute all the info you have provided isn't stored in the memory banks of their PC's.

P411 is based out of Canada where hobbying is legal. They won't be forced to turn over anything about you to the US. I'd say you can't ge much safer that that. Go P411, Go Indi!

Posted By: HalfHour

Don't use an agency. The risk is not worth it.

Here's the deal. Some women are tighter about references. You're on a verification site. See a couple of ladies who accept you as is, yet will give referals. Do this even if they are not your type; you are investing in your hobby future.

Seek and use true indies. They get all the money. Don't use your real name. Get a hobby name.

Be safe and have fun.



HH