I understand most of the issues relative to whitelisting.
However, Is there a way to see what other people a provider has whitelisted if she has whitelisted you?
Second ,  It seems that more than one white listing seems superflous since if a providers uses it for referance one is enough,  and if the providers does not use them, more that one is not gonna help.

No, you can't accurately tell whom else she has white listed. It is none of your business, and it could be a serious violation of privacy if you could.

And you are also wrong on the second statement. A lot of girls, in fact, need more than whitelists to verify you. There is no such thing as too much of whitelists. You also never know when your whitelists will go away, as TER will remove them if they decide to delist the girl for one reason or another.

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Well it's none of my business who whitelisted you but I can see that, so no reason to get snappy with your answer.  A simple no would have done.  Which I kinda suspected as I am not un itelligent when it comes to programs and software.  Sounds like your preaching morality rather than answering the question lol.  Again,  why should I know who white listed you.  The program could be change so only providers and the owner of the id could acess it's white list Preach your feelings to the TER Board lol. Anyway thanks for the imput.

And I wasn't snappy. That's how we talk around here...

You can't see what other hobbyists a provider has whitelisted, but you can see who has whitelisted a particular hobbyist, if the hobbyist would allow you to see it. There is a setting in Account Manager that lets you control the very same thing.

And its none of your business anyway to know who else the provider has whitelisted. If you are that curious, just ask it to the provider and see if she tells you. Who knows, she might.. Why do you care for that info anyway?

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Why I want to know is none of your business  lol.  What comes around goes around.
I am not confused--looking at who has whitelisted a reviewer could be reprogrammed to meet with your sense of wha'ts right.  If I check it for providers to see--dosen't mean other reviewers should see  lol---And your self imposed righteousness is not common on this board---it is the way YOU talk
Have a nice day

All you need to do is go to her profile and see the guys that have reviewed her and click on there page. As you know her whitelist referral would show under his reviews, if she w/l him. Of course he can turn that off so no one sees it by going into Account Manager. Now that would take a bit of time, but you can do it if you really wanted to Curl.

That will still not give you accurate figure, because there is no such rule that one has to review someone in order to receive a white list.

I have received white list from two girls whom I haven't reviewed, and don't intend to review because they don't want to be reviewed anymore.

The only real way to know is ask the lady or TER, and neither of them are likely to tell you.

Happy Holidays people...

Curly...

TY an articulate well written response   EOM

and see who else she has whitelisted.

If you think he was "snappy" with his answer you should spend some time on the General Discussion board.

Click on the guys who reviewed her, and then go down the the bottom of the page where you will find who white listed the guy. White listing is not a reference...it is a way to give extra points to clients we REALLY like being with, not just those who did not rob us or kill us. I have given about 70 in 5 years, because each and everyone of those men is someone I hold in high regard. So no, it's not useless.

Your post comes off as you don't want other providers seeing who whitelisted you, making me think you might have some ATF you don't want to know about your other conquests. A bit absurd for a hooker to get jealous if that is the case.

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asking this on the newbie board? Hmm, I think he either wants to know who a certain provider has seen, or he has a provider he does not want knowing who he has seen.

white listed...who has the time? It is not like preferred411, where you see a list of how many Okays a provider gave out. In other words it won't say "London Rayne has given out 40 whitelists." I whitelisted CPA and he did not review me, but he can turn off that whitelist thing in the Account Manager. So yes, you can in fact keep it on private if you're wanting to hide your escapades from another hooker lol.

Not about personal feelings. I have experienced that myself in the community and I have been around for many years.

I disagree with you about white listings. They are meant to be exactly like an ok from p411. They are not meant to be handed out only to fair-haired clients. If that is how you choose to dole them out that is your prerogative, but that was not the intent of their introduction to this site. If a hobbyist saw you, was respectful and paid the agreed rate, and wrote you a fair review, he deserves a white listing in return. That's what a white listing has always been about.

if it is, get over it.  And as others have mentioned, it's really none of your business, who else a provider has white listed.

The whitelist is what it is.  TER's guidelines, as perfectstorm pointed out, are pretty simple.  It's up to the provider whether or not she gives a WL referral.  It's really no one else's business who she gives one to.  Other providers can look at the client's list of referrals if she needs, or wants, to use them as references, as can other hobbyists see the list if they so desire.  As far as finding out who a provider has given out referrals to, you can do an awful lot of looking at her reviewers lists, but that may not be all of them, if she referred someone who didn't review her.  Remember, not all providers want reviews for various reasons.

So, it's time to give it a rest people, I think you've beat it sufficiently to death.

Swim

Have you any idea how many providers give out an ok to a guy who was absolutely disgusting? Well, that's my point! I will give a 'REFERENCE' to anyone who was clean and respectful, BUT I also want the option of being able to tell a lady certain things I cannot attach to an Ok or a white list. When I give a guy a white list, that is my golden seal of approval, not just my hooker duty to vouch for him because he did not rob or kill me.

A white list is a PUBLIC reference where I can't get into any details about why I might not see him again, but that he was still an "ok" client. I don't white list guys who are just "ok."

A white list on TER, to me, is the premium reference, and I don't hand them out like candy on Halloween. I agree some ladies do, which is why I still don't base my decisions off of a white list, because quite frankly, some women will fk anything.

So, although there is no golden rule, this is how I use the option, and I can certainly do what I want. I won't ever be forced to ok someone 'just because' lol. You saying if a guy did x, y, and z, that I am forced to ok him is insane. I am an independent last time I checked.

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