The wonderful thing about this hobby is that it is for everyone at their own pace and style.
Just put some time into researching the ladies in your area through the Review section Search Function, find a few that interest you, and start contacting them in order of priority. Once you've had a session, wait as long as you need and do it again.
In the meantime, keep up with the local scene from your regional board, keep track of who interests you, and then you will be ready to pull the trigger again.
While you're waiting between infrequent sessions, participate in local discussion on your board and get to know some of the players.
It is what YOU make it, not what any of US make out of it.
It seems to me that the majority of hobbiests on TER appear to be affluent, I am not. I at best could afford a provider 2 maybe 3 times a year *more if I can budget better*. Would a well reviewed woman even want to waste her time on me?? I am not keen on UTR's especially on CL and BP. call it paranoia but I think those sites are now under CLOSE scrutiny. Streetwalkers are out of the question. Now, this is the real me and is the truth. I am as previously stated NOT rich. I drive an 89 s-10 blazer. I am not hung like a breeder bull. I am not garnishing a full head of hair. I am not a big talker. I am chubby, not quite fat though. I am just a plain common person. I DONT like fancy clothes, jeans and a t-shirt are my style. I am not easy on the eyes, but not an ogre. I DO however respect women, as long as you dont ask my sister. I am a good LISTENER. I have good hygiene, sometimes to a fault. I pay my bills, in full. I have very high morals and am quite objective. Just a short overview of me and 100% accurate. So tell me, am I wasting my time here?
The wonderful thing about this hobby is that it is for everyone at their own pace and style.
Just put some time into researching the ladies in your area through the Review section Search Function, find a few that interest you, and start contacting them in order of priority. Once you've had a session, wait as long as you need and do it again.
In the meantime, keep up with the local scene from your regional board, keep track of who interests you, and then you will be ready to pull the trigger again.
While you're waiting between infrequent sessions, participate in local discussion on your board and get to know some of the players.
It is what YOU make it, not what any of US make out of it.
Most can afford to hobby more than you, but some guys only hobby a few times a year. Some guys hardly ever hobby, but rather lurk these boards living vicariously. It takes all types.
As far as looks, age, body type etc...... every age, color, size, hair type, religion, and ethnicity are represented here. In the end it's up to YOU if the hobby is right for you.
Hmmmmmm, perhaps I should have said that I treat others as I wish to be treated instead of very high morals. I am not cheating on anyone, I am single and tired of self gratification. Nothing can beat a real life human being. BTW, what does very low swinging balls mean? And has anyone ever heard of (Removed by mod for compliance)
The fact that you can only afford to hobby 2-3 times a year means that every date really counts; and therefore you can not afford to waste even one opportunity.
To that end, do careful research on who you select, and also brush up on your hobbyist skills and general knowledge of how to maximize your enjoyment of the brief time you'll share with a hottie.
Who knows, you might even find a wild woman who will trade sex for a chance to ride in your Blazer!
As long as you are respectful, fresh, (recently showered, and fresh breath), on time, don't request something that is not on the menu, don't haggle of the price, most escorts will love you as a client. As previous posts have said, there's all types who hobby. Do your research, make sure you know what you'll be getting into. Do a lot of lurking on your local board and you should be fine A professional escort will not care about your economic status, as long as you're a gentleman
Not to sound too jaded or crass, but your economic situation is probably less of an issue with these ladies than with the average woman in public.
Yes, the very basis of the interactions here is pay-for-play. Yes, supposedly love and sex in Real Life are supposed to be free. But I think we all know that is not the reality. At least not for the majority of civvy women.
If you budget carefully, you will have all the money any provider would want you to have. That is, the amount agreed upon for her time with you. They don't expect you to lavish gifts on them, or take them to fancy restaurants, or to jet them off for an exotic vacation. They don't even expect you to be calling them every few weeks with another envelope of money.
What the other posts said is true. Be clean, respectful, and as relaxed as possible. Most any provider would consider you a great client.
I agree... hygeine and respect go along way... (and money lol)...
Although we aim to have regulars, some of us like to also enjoy our time as well and that can help you get a more favorable response... and I don't know your situation, but some girls are willing to work with you to see you more often for slighty less. As long as you don't put yourself out there as overly demanding you'll do just fine. good luck
If you haven't gotten laid in a while, dial a girl and get it over with. But in the long term ...join a gym, start socializing, take some self improvement. You don't have to be rich or pay to get laid, really.
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