Ok this is a question to providers. If you take the risk on a newbie and for some reason they have performance anxiety probably from nervousness. Given the encounter was pleasant and such minus them being so nervous. Would you be willing to see them again?

I had this issue with my first experience last week.  Kind of with my second - had to revert to HJ to complete - and I knew it was tiring for her.

I'm curious to see the responses are to this.  I didn't think it was that big of a deal to the provider because she did what she was supposed to.

I would say that I would probably be better off seeing the same provder again since I'd be more comfortable with 1) knowing you're legit and 2) knowing what to expect.  Of course I'd pay the same price the second time around.

look for a lady with more energy.

I have had clients who pop there cherry quickly and some not so quickly.  But have been known to come back for a second try to redeem themselves.

I also have been known to make them relax enough to have a wonderful and enjoyable time.  

There are tricks of the trade to help with some of those issues.... (wink)

JC  

Hello Looking!! I am a semi newbie myself so i can relate to some degree. It is entirely normal to have RE occur for a first timer, or anyone for that matter! See the Love Goddess on the erotic highway to your left, there are many post's on this topic and rest assured you will find the right provider who will give it her all and be understanding, sometimes we do have to work a little harder, it goes without saying.But remember my friend, ultimatley it is the journey not the destination. Just try to relax and enjoy what your body can give for that day!! Kisses, Belle.

that most of the ladies you see here, are going to be very understanding, and very patient. Chances are that they have dealt with this before, and will know exactly what to do.

I do think that going to see the same lady again is a good idea, as the second time around, you'll most likely be a little more relaxed.

Of course I would! Sometimes performance issues happen. Its no big deal.

lol trust me, sometimes it CAN get tiring, and I've got plenty of "energy". That certainly isn't a reason to not see a gentleman again though.

Hi,
I'm a client, NOT a provider.  I have experienced this situation personally.  I have a partial spinal cord injury which makes things feel different...  it feels great, just different.  Sometimes the stars align & thing happen in a rush...  other times not.  
I've had some wanna-be providers who weren't interested in finishing what we started.
I've had many excellant & skilled ladies who made sure it happened in the end.  (Or as one Fav said to me when I explained my situation...  "It won't be a problem!"  and it hasn't been.)

If the lady seemed ok once, then she'll be ok again.  Just relax & enjoy the ride.
skb

we never,
never,
never,
take it personal.  It happens to the best of us, and sometime might not even be anxiety. Poor sleep, diet, or stress can also cause some momentary interruptions.  

Don't worry about it, lest just have fun and enjoy.

xxoo

Christine & Alex
Phun Phlirty Phantasies in Phoenix
-- for 3 or more --

I was just curious. My first try at hobbying was quite the eye opener in more ways than I can express lol. Never been more nervous before but at the same time never experienced someone as skilled as the provider I saw. She was great about the whole thing and I am definitely going to have to redeem myself. Next time though I have the benefit of not having to worry about the what-ifs I did the first time. Since she made me feel so comfortable. Over thinking something you want is such a drag. Word of advice for any other newbies like me expect the unexpected. You’ll be better off preparing for something great and being disappointed. Than to not prepare yourself and be completely dumb founded. Well at least imo.

My doubles partner and I both love ya...and we luv the reviews u did even more lol.  But most newbies have a little anxiety their first time just like we do about them.  If we as providers do our part to calm their fears and they still act weird...9 outta 10 times i just think they are weirdos and don't see them again lol.