Does anyone know of an easy way tell if a provider is legit and not LE?  I'm a newbie and can honestly say I'm a bit nervous.

Anyone have any advice or things I should pay attention to?

Also, how long do providers keep your contact / verification info?  I guess I'm a little nervous about doing this and then somewhere down the road having a provider get busted and give up a customer database ---

I know, I probably sound ridiculous -- but I'm just trying to be safe and careful.

1. Check her TER reviews! You'll do yourself a service by getting VIP, which makes the reviews complete. DO NOT see an un-reviewed lady!

2. Use common sense, do your research (search this board), and think with the head above your neck!

3. HAVE FUN!

Afterwards, write and share your own review about your great time!

Mm has twice as many reviews as I do, and I believe he has given you excellent advice.

Your first question has been well answered.

From what I have read on this board in the past LE will not take any action on clients that a provider might have. The only reason you should be concerned is if you are a very well known individual because if the media ever got a hold of a list they might be interested in famous or influencial people. If your more or less a regular Joe then you have nothing to worry about.

4 or 5 reviews from established reviewers with a similar number of reviews over time?  Are the reviews worthy of your time and hard earned cash?

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I still have MANY of my contact information. They are safe, and no other prying eyes will EVER get a chance to see them.
Do your homework, don't be so afraid, and ask questions. GET VIP so you can PM some of the ladies or gents and ask them.
Good luck sweety...you got a long way to go.

xoxo
Diana

And one more in progress!!!

Thanks rentagirl, its really nice to be noticed. I should add that NONE of the advice I gave here is originally mine - its just repeated from the BEST TER users!

by asking for references or personal and employment information.

LE does not bother to do this, so there is a greater chance that a provider who does not care to verify is either LE or working with LE.

At a minimum, it tells you that she herself is not a very careful person, so why get involved with them?