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Re: Need outcall advice
if you are in nyc and need some short stays let me know
Personally I would not have a lady that I have never met before come to my residence single or not.
You can rent a hotel room in your area. The staff will not care. You do not have to stay the night if you don't want to. You can leave anytime you like without checking out at the desk. I do this all the time. The hotel will settle your bill to the credit card that you gave them when you checked-in. If you are paying cash they will take that from you at check in.
Hi.
I started this great hobby about 9 months ago back in December '08(with about one rendezvous per month) and have always been going to their incall location. However, I have come across a well reviewed provider who I would like to meet that appears to only be offering outcall. I have never done outcall as I don't travel much.
Anyways, should I get a hotel and have her come to my room number, then after the rendezvous is over I just stay the night? Or should I just stay home and have her come to my residence? Although, I would rather not do it that way if possible. I don't live in a shady neighborhood just a nice middle class area. I am single and live all by my lonesome self.
Also if I choose to get a hotel I'd have to go to one that is in the same city that I live in, because that is where the provider that I want to see also lives in or lives nearby. Because I am not traveling, would the hotel staff question me about why I am staying at their hotel for the night when I already have a residence that is not too far away? Or would they not care either way and I'm just being paranoid?
I really appreciate any thoughts or suggestions...
Personally I would not have a lady that I have never met before come to my residence single or not.
You can rent a hotel room in your area. The staff will not care. You do not have to stay the night if you don't want to. You can leave anytime you like without checking out at the desk. I do this all the time. The hotel will settle your bill to the credit card that you gave them when you checked-in. If you are paying cash they will take that from you at check in.
With a reputable provider you shouldn't have any problems with having them come to your home, but if hotel is more comfortable to you, that should be perfectly fine. Staying overnight or leaving afterwards is up to you. You don't need to go through the front to check out, as your room will be charged on the card you used to make a reservation anyway. If they ask you why you are staying there, which is none of their business, you could say you are remodeling your house, or you need a quiet room to work, or you had a fight with your wife.. I'm sure you can come up with a good reason.
If this visit is the first with the provider, I would recommend the hotel. Just as already said, you don't have to stay there unless you want to.
The other guys already gave you good advice on how to handle the hotel. Just have an overnight bag when you go to room. If you leave in the middle of the night, no one knows. You just leave the key in the room and go. Some girls do that too.
Personally, I would not do an outcall to a hotel unless I was travelling and had to, which I have done. Do you not want to go to her incall anymore? Is there a problem with doing an incall? To me, it's so much easier.
Swim
Previous posts all offer excellent advice. You may want to look at one of the many web sites for discount hotel rooms. Priceline, hotwire,expedia or hotels. com That way you may be able to snag a 4 or 5 star suite at a 3 star room rate. A really great hotel suite, just adds to the total experience. Good luck.
Well I guess I am different. I have had ladies come to my house for years, never had a problem yet. I just can't see going to the trouble and expense of renting a hotel in my own town, do that enough on the road, but it really is just what you are comfortable with.
I will offer one bit of advice, if you do get a hotel room, never ever ever let the provider con you into letting them keep the hotel room for the night after the session is over. Remember, it is in your name....
Do not, repeat, do not let her use the room for the rest of the night if you are not going to be there. You have no idea what she might do, and if the room is in your real name, you might get fucked, in not a nice way.
Swim
because she may do some things that are not in your best interest. For example, she may order lots of stuff from room service, pay-for-view movies, or she may entertain a client after you have gone or in the morning who may trash the room.
In prefer outcall. After a great session, I don't want to have to get dressed and drive somewhere! I have had numerous visits to my home, and as long as she is a well-reviewed provider on TER, you won't have a problem. Cosy, nosy neighborhood? Have her dress casual (no sexy or schoolgirl outfits!), and maybe carry something to the door (not a suitcase! lol) so she looks like she is making a delivery of some sort. Explain your circumstances, she will know what to do. This also saves spending on a hotel room.
if you are using someone you have already seen, and just want the comfort of not going out, i dont see why not have her do an outcall, but also ask if she charges more for an outcall. I myself only do outcall so i have one price, but when i did incall and outcall i charged 2 different prices.
I have been to many homes of married men and always made it a point to not touch or disturb anything, i dont want the drama and neither do they.
Or you can always use a short stay..no credit card needed..no luggage required and short time stay. and cheaper.
as far as hotels.. for me ..they make appt ..they tell me where and what time.. i get within 4 blocks, tell them i am close and they arrange hotel for short stay and callme back with room number. This way, if something were to happen, you just didnt pay for a room you couldnt use.
thats how i do it..makes eveyone comfortable..
bridgette
if you are in nyc and need some short stays let me know
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