Hi,

Newbie here, and interested in how best to choose your first provider.

Is there any one thing that's more important to pay attention to? Did pricing play a role in who you chose as your first?

Say you found 4 or 5 that you were really attracted to physically. But out of that group, there was one who, (by virtue of what you read about them on their website), you felt there would be an intellectual and common interest connection with as well. But if you were making a choice based on body alone, she would not be your first choice.

Any helpful tips are appreciated.

choosing a lady who has several years in the business. Probably better if she is in her 30s / 40s as well.

It is of course important that she be attractive to you. And desirable that you can establish some rapport.

But remember that you do not have a lot of *time* in 1 hour for common interests etc to come into play.

As a noob you will need a lady with experience helping newer gents along. It is a very different dynamic than civvieworld.

Hmm... so far, the ones I'm interested in are in their late 20s.

I know an hour is not a lot of time, but I just thought common interests might be helpful in some way.

And thinking it might be a good idea to let her know in my initial email that I'm new.

communication is important.

I still think that the odds of having a good first experience increase commensurately with the lady's experience in the biz....

Good luck!

GTM

late 20's works well too. The key is finding a provider with good reviews. The more the better. Good reviews too. Too many bad ones, and you might need to watch out. I go for 15 as a minimum personally.

letting her know you're a newb is a good idea. Yes, an hour is not very much time, but it's always good to start with an hour when seeing a new provider. If you want to see her again, try going 90 minutes. Then intellectual conversation can happen. In 60 minutes, there's generally not much time.

Personally, I have a fairly low tolerence for dumb people generally, and the same is true for providers. I have yet to meet a well reviewed provider who wasn't pretty bright to boot.

I will not consider appearance--LOL.  The lady must be attractive but attractive varies as in YMMV.  

By having VIP, you can read the details in the reviews to see if you will have some chemistry with the lady you are considering.  Physical chemistry is important too.  For example, some ladies only offer CBJ (thier choice and I do not question that) while you may be seeking BBBJ.

Good luck!

BTW, relax and enjoy.

My 1st encounter was with an experienced lady. I didn't see her face as it was hidden from view. That was my first mistake. Everything was covered, my second mistake. No reviews, that was my third mistake. Over priced that was my 4th mistake. And finally no kissing, what a bumber.  Of course I didn't know about this website at the time. Finally that was my last mistake.  That is why we share info.  So these things don't happen.  Live, learn, study and make sure you know what your getting....Good luck and have fun...

I would go with one of the ones you find the most attractive physically.Provided they have good reviews of course.

While it certainly can enhance the experience to have some sense of connection on a personality level, you really don't know if you'll get that just by reading what she says on her site.

For your first experience you should try to find the girl who's likely to show you the hottest time. Then you'll be hooked like the rest of us!

Seems like it's best to go with the hottest provider one can afford, and with great reviews.

I think I can handle that.

Thanks all for the suggestions.

An expereinced provider that sees newbies is a plus. Big difference from young ladies to mature, you'll have to find your comfort zone.