Without reading her advertisement, I would venture to guess that the lady prob. stated that she was a dancer on her ad page, not so much to attract you to see her at the club, but more likely to give a persepective client a feel for her body type. She most likely does NOT want to mix her dancing at a club with her escorting side gig. She may be dancing to put herself through school, pay her bills, etc. The last thing that this lady wants is for her "escorting clients", especially men who she doesnt know, showing up at the club. Nothing good can come of it.

At this stage your question obviously scared her off. She doesn't know who you are, nor anything about you and is obviously not interested in having you hang out at her place of employment. I know you want to find out if she is legitmate, but this is NOT the way to go about it. You basically want a free meeting. What guarantees does she have that you" spend money on her at the club"? She is not interested in having you hang out at the club and dancing for you and your friends so you can decide that you may or may not want to meet her as an escort. If you want to set up a session with her, then book a session and pay for her time. If you are concerned that she is a "dancing cop" (because she only has two reviews) then move on to someone else.

But putting aside the issue of a free meeting, there are tremendous safety concerns as well. While some dancers do also escort, its only after they have established some type of relationship with a client. If they meet a gentleman at their dance club, they will have an opportunity to screen him fully and only when they are completely comfortable with him perhaps discuss the possibilities of an escort/client relationship. What you want to do is walk in to her club, knowing she is already an escort, (which would make the lady EXTREMELY uncomfortable) and then see if you want to book a session. No way the lady wants to go this route. Not knowing who you are makes that situation unsafe. Not a smart way to go.    

BTW, if you dont want to get a DWI, then simply don't drink and get behind the wheel. The fact that the club is near or not near a police station should not matter. Nothing good EVER comes from someone driving a car while imparied.

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She probably should not have mentioned that she is a dancer. She may have felt that it would make her appear more desirable but it's a bad idea.  I'm sure you are not the only guy who has asked her what club she works at but that was also not a good idea. If she's smart she doesn't want guys showing up at her club who are interested in hiring her as an escort.

I see an escort or two who dance as well and they do not solicit business from their customers inside the club.  Girls talk and a bad reputation is not the way to avoid drama as a stripper.

Make no mistake, there are plenty of dancers who escort and escorts who dance.  The smart ones keep both occupations separate from each other. If you have contacted her and she has not responded I would say it's best to move on.

...before she's even met you. After you've spent a session with her and shown a sense of discretion, she might entrust you with her dancing schedule, with the understanding that you won't come in with your buds, drunkenly point at her onstage and boast about the crazy sex you had at the Red Roof Inn.