Doing lots of reading here and a common concern is references.  I am new to
this so I have no one to "verify" me.  My request to join P411 was rejected for this reason.
Geez it's like being a new college grad...no one will hire you because you have no experience
but how are you going to get experience if no one will hire you?!  On my site I ask for a lot of info
but feel as though readers may feel uncomfortable with this.

Perhaps a seasoned provider may have some suggestions for me...I'm feeling kinda' lost!
Anyone who has some usable information please email me @ [email protected]

did you try Date Check or RoomService2000?  Don't know what they require from new providers but it's worth a look I would think.  You haven't seen anyone yet professionally?  

Suggest you start posting on your local regional board here, put up an ad there too.  Don't know what else to tell you.

Swim

What you could do is look at the other ladies with reviews from a couple of years and email them looking for one who could mentor you through starting up. To start with your best advice will come from experienced providers and once they get to know you they can show you what you need to get started. Plus if she becomes comfortable enough with you she might even refer some of her clients to you which will get you the experience and reviews you need to break the ice. Also read the various boards on here and join in when you can, that will do a lot to let potential clients and other ladies know your ok.

I feel your pain Lovely lady.    I am not a  "professional" provider  so no official web site , reviews, etc  
my clients I meet very privatly  and are not the type to do reviews   I am finding though if I want a better or more clientel  you have to be reviewed and be more public I guess
good luck to you sweetie and be safe

great advise thanks Mentor    

Oh only problem I have found is a lot of providers wont talk to us "newbies" or less experienced

Well one thing I know worked is if one of your clients uses you as a reference for another provider. That will get you in contact with the other lady. Now if she has the time and inclination to help a newbie is another matter. In my experience two different providers when hearing about other ladies I had seen were willing to contact and give advice to another provider as long as they knew she was a real provider. The common client, me , being the introduction they needed.

It was very frustrating as I was a returning provider with no recent refs - but there are ways around it though it takes patience. I have sent you an e-mail

Summer

Hi Lady,
Did this help, the mentor thing? I'm a virgin to the whole thing (no hobbyist to speak of, no references). I'm afraid to start because 1. I don't want to run into a le 2. I don't know how I can verify a hobbyist information without these sites (P411, Date_Check). Just wanted to know if you found an answer.
Thanx,
b_crystal

Posted By: afunsxygirl

great advise thanks Mentor    

Oh only problem I have found is a lot of providers wont talk to us "newbies" or less experienced