How can one distinguish a real provider from le? What can a real provider do that le can't?

A female law enforcement officer probably won't have many reviews, at least not good ones

When a provider puts cuffs on you, you usually don't end up in a cell with a bunch of guys.

never discus sexual activities over the phone or in email with you.

hang up and never communicate with you again if you discuss sexual details with her.

verify you.

have many reviews.

have a genuine website.

Not that providers who don't do this will necessarily by LE, but these things will all reduced the possibility quite a bit.

Stick to ladies with a review history over a long period of time from reviewers who have several other reviews to their name.

In other words, do your research so you can be comfortable and confident when you turn up for your session.

Obviously any reviews would be fake and contrived.  So in all liklihood they'd be BETTER THAN MOST.  Probably too good to be true better if they took the trouble to do them.

I know u were phuckin around, BTW!

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That doesn't help the newbies who have no reviews as of yet. Don't get me wrong, but just starting out, I have gone through a ton of email, met 7 clients, and after a month since starting I have out of those 7, 5 I have seen more than once. It just takes some time to get a feel for someone, but PLEASE don't warn away from us newbies with No reviews as of yet!!

Remember they are nervous about you too.  I totally agree with the other posts, especially the rules about talking on the phone.  Also in person, a provider will never talk about the donation and many will not "notice" then envelope you discreetly put down on the side-table / sink / etc. You must never mention the envelope nor say anything dumb like, "I hope this is enough".  If they ask you, "what is that for?" then run like hell!   Zip, zero nada -- never discuss the donation.  You'll know from the website.  Words are unnecessary and dangerous.


Seriously, what I do is to get naked immediately if I sense any hesitancy in the gal.  This is very reassuring to the provider since it is very difficult to hide the cuffs or a wire or whatever if you are in your birthday suit.  In my experience, 100% of the gals immediately get naked themselves.  Why not?  (You can enjoy the stripping part on your next visit).    One time, I did this and the gal did not get naked and started asking me questions.  My gut said get out of there so I put on my shorts, grabbed my clothes and the envelope and left.   Definitely trust your instinct. Better safe than sorry.

Oh, another hint:  Just ask them if they are LE!  It is very hard for people to lie under pressure, especially LE. Hesitation, looking down or away = bad sign!

I just ask if there le like previously stated and when they say know ask them to grab you or if you can grab them any le will not do this and try to beat around the bush about it in this case run like hell.