Ok so I have two ex clients who keep emailing me.

The one pretended to be a cop for a freebie session and now wants a "side relationship" not a business relationship where any respectable man would pay for it, but he wants it for free.

the hey cutie, he sweetie, how you doing, hey stranger emails are getting old. I really thought he was a cop until i posted here and now I dont think he was or atleast hes not acting like one.

Part of me wants to agree to meet with him....tie him to the bed in a suductive manor sit on his face and get him so damn horney his dick feels like its going to pop...then tell him i know hes not a cop and walk the fuck out leaving him tied securly to the bed.

another part of me wants to email him and tell him hes a fraud... commited a worse crime then I did....and further more tell him he is an indecent person to take advantage of someone and use them like this.

and lastly the last part of me just wants to ignore him.

2nd guy... met up had a great time, followed all of his requests on dress, actions etc... he left the envelope... as I open and count (after he leaves) i not notice 3 fake 20 dollar bills.

I handle it like a lady, email him about it...his response was I got ya... and my response was...no what you got was an amazing blow job and sex that you can only dream about and never have again because you wanted to lie and be a cheat.

Needless to say a month later he started emailing me...just one time at first...asking me to forigive him and saying he will pay up front and i can inspect the money this time and blah blah blah...i ignored him... yesterday he sent me 4 emails... begging me to see him again....he even went as far as saying he left me a review on BD.... I dont want his review...I dont want his money.... fuck him...excuse my french...and not in a good way!!!

I have had the suggestion thrown at me to change my email, my name, everything. I am sorry but fuck that too....I shouldnt have to change shit because they are losers...am I wrong?

Any help, tips, ideas would be appreciated. thanks
xoxo
Cherry

Ignore both of these guys. Block their emails and phone calls. Any type of response positive or negative will just encourage to keep on trying. Eventually they will get tired of not getting a response out of you. Keep records/calls  of all the emails and messages. Not sure if you did incall out of your private residence but if you did, you will need to keep an eye out for these guys. I'm not trying to freak you out, but I know these things can escalate. One of my favs who did not do incall out of her private residence was followed by a client back to her home. She eventually had to move out of her private residence as the stalking continued. This is one of the reasons why it's not a good idea to host out of your private residence. Good luck, hope things work out for you.

a-holes and do not know the proper way to treat a lady.  Conversely, some providers are ROB, B & S, etc.  As others have said, do not respond; put them on a spam list, etc.  

You might want to improve your screening methods and/or use a procedure where you have the guy put the envelope down and go into the restroom to wash hands while you quickly count the $.

Good luck.

you some training...We're gonna develop your "Inner Biatc"...you'll need it!
I'll email u shortly with my location, k

Agree  1) IGNORE  
#1  ripped you off & terrorized you.  As tempting as it might be to get even...  and we'd all love to see it...  it also might make him dangerous.

Agree  2) IGNORE
#2 ripped you off.  This is supposed to be fun, or reasonably so.  You'll have to forever be on your guard that he'll not pull some BS in the future.  

I know my Favs plans (donation after) leave them vulnerable to scams like shorting.  A lot of ladies pick up the donation before the action...  with the attendant risk of a LE sting...   You can pick it up while he's in the bathroom or check it & put it away or pick it up, check it in the bathroom yourself...  come back empty handed.   You could request the donation be left in on the vanity in the bath...  but some guys would probably not know...  
Personally, I feel handling the donation is un-GFE.  Some girls (probably been ripped off) feel they have to.  The illusion is much nicer if the donation is handled in private.   Repeat visits is no guarentee that you'll not be ripped off.

This is something you'll have to evolve to suit you...  do what feels right.  
skb

The one guy did come to my incall place...I usually only bring repeats here that I know I can trust.

But for some reason that day i did not listen to my gut. I thought i was bing overly cautious.

Luckily it was almost two months ago I think when I saw him, and I am hoping that he doesnt have the address anymore. I do not live alone so I wont have to worry about that, and honeslty he shows up here...welll lets just say I dont know if I would be able to control myself. Nor my friend... who is a guy and stands 6 feet 3 inches.

The other one  "the cop" I only andswered a few of his emails on the same day it happend after the fact he emailed me to see how i was doing, then to ask about seeing each other on the side for fun.
The last thing I said to him was that this really shook me up and I was going to stay low for a while.

I hanvt answered him and I wont. I want to...not in a nice way...but I wont.

I am learning, and quite a few wonderful ladies have stepped up to help show me the light and a more proper way of screening and doing things right.

I am a trusting person, I guess becasue I am good hearted I want to believe everyone is good hearted.

I feel the same way about the donation, I actually have it listed on my website. I dont want to ruin the mood by bringing up the business end of it. Leave it in an envelope and lets get down to business.

If they go to the bathroom, I will peek and put it right back where they left it and sit patiently for them to finish cleaning up

Thanks for the tips and advice, i guess i just second guess myself a lot. And well I really would love to "get them back" but then that make sme no better then they are. I will be the adult here, I will leave the children to play in the sandbox alone.

the first one just junk email he will give up eventually, on number 2 I had a FAV with a similar problem she emailed back first he had to pay the shortage with no session public place, secondly his rate just went up by the amount of the shortage for every session. she held firm and he stopped trying when he realized she was firm about it. But this was someone who she had seen regularly before so she was not adverse to seeing him again if he paid for the problem he caused.

be nice, follow the rules, or you don't get invited back.  It's not rocket science.
 
The only time this was difficult was when a "massage lady" granted me extras, implicit was a tip for the extras was expected (this was NOT upsell)...  but she refused to give any hint or suggestion.  The massage rate was half what I would have paid to a FS provider.  Since the extras included FS I felt she should get the same & since I set the rate, it remains to this day.  (Actually, Saturday when I saw her last.)
skb

I like it!  

Put them on your ignore list for TER PM's, and block all calls and texts from them if possible.  Both should also be blacklisted, since it's unlikely you are the only one they have or will try to scam and harass.    

Also, it would seem smart set up your incall someplace where they haven't seen you.  Best of luck...

Put him on providerbuzz.com.