Not really a newbie but thought this question was better for this board.  I have been out of the game for about a year now due to financial reason so I don't have any current references.   Also when I do hobby I only usually only do it every 6 months or so and tend to see different women when I do.  

What is the best way to get references for someone in my position.  I know most girls don't like to give a reference for someone that they have seen over 6 months ago.