If a girl does not usually do bbbjs is it ok to ask if she will if you increase her donation? I want a bbbj from a girl but the girl I have my eye on does not offer it. I want to ask but I don't want to offend her. I am new so please take it easy on me.

Most definately NOT! Unless she is a cheap eastern european, rates are inclusive and limited too services offered... if a girl doesn't do it then she doesn't do it for a reason!

If you are going by her profile that she doesn't offer it, she may have changed since it was created.  If the last review makes note of it, then you can trust that she doesn't.

However, YMMV goes along way sometimes, and it doesn't hurt to politely request during the session. BUT, if she says no, I would not push it or try to offer more money because chances are that she has other reasons besides money for not offering it (safety, personal preference, etc).  Pushing for it will put a damper on the session and is just rude.  Also, as a newbie and not really experienced with reading Provider's nonverbal cues, you may go too far and either piss her off or make her worry that you are LE trying to get her to bargain for a specific sex act.

I would suggest that if it is that important to you that you find a provider who will offer it.

Good luck

Haggling/negotiating is generally a very bad idea.







-- Modified on 8/24/2008 7:01:02 AM

There are also cheap asians, latinas, blacks, and good ole fashioned cheap white americans.

Sry I live in Europe... I have European blood, and I hate constantly being confused with the EE's.... and I really hate the um.. aren't ur prices high there are girls for less? especially drop dead ee's.....

my answer... It's all about the quality... the services they offer are minimal at best where as others really do deserve the extra because they go above and beyond!

(Link removed by moderator - doesn't work)

-- Modified on 8/26/2008 12:48:33 PM

If you ask her to do something that you can see by reading her reviews isn't an option you run the risk of her feeling as if are a boundary crosser and she then goes into managing your expectations mode. Result you get a session where she's worried about what you're gonna do/ask/say next that's gonna be crossing the line. You wanna be managed or do you want to have fun?

Pick a girl who does what it is you like, dont insult her by offering her cash to break her rules or to go outside her comfort zone. Believe me shes got her reasons for what she does and what she doesn't do and a few extra bucks isnt going to make her reasons go away.

TER listings are not put up by the lady...  see if she has a web page.  If so read it.  That's the menu.  If you try to order other than the menu, she's likely not going to deliver...  It's really rude to press.  

Realy much better to match each session with the menu.
skb

from someone who normally provides only CBJs is to make her feel comfortable with you. One of the best ways to do that is go down on her for about twenty minutes. It's amazing how comfortalbe a lady will feel after her fourth or fifth Orgasism. lol

There are tactful ways to ask if the cover is absoulutely mandatory for oral, but you are not tactful and your request is taken the wrong way you do run the risk of ruining the mood of the session.

Use TER and the review system to find a girl who does what you like, not to try and push a lady out of her comfort zone.  Even asking the question could, a least, get you a lousy appointment and, at worst, get you thrown out before even getting started.

You will be surprised at what the offer of more cash will cause a provider to do. Use some tact though.

How then do you advise or suggest, other then reviews to find out if greek or daty is on the menu?  I mean I see alot of GFE listed, but isn't that kind of bland or open to figure out?  And I'm wondering is there any suggested way to find out before you meet, what is in limits and not?  I know the LE aspect, which is why I'm asking, what exactly is the best way, like for us newbies who can't see full reviews, to find out what specific services a provider will do?  I do not want to offend whoever I'd pick for a provider in any way at all,  in fact, if she'd allow daty, I'm really good, serious.  How exactly do you ask or find out if she takes greek lessons so I don't have to find out the hard way or piss anyone off?  Advice?

I agree with GA Gambler, as well as others, but may I add some other suggestions.... First, let her know if you are married.  While I wouldn't personally do it, there are providers out there that allow creampie for married men. (WTF!!)  And I have read that some will do BBBJ rather than CBJ if you are married.  Also, I personally LOVE DATY on a very clean provider, so do that for awhile to show her you are not afraid of her "juices".  Lastly, I swore not to tell who, but a provider I saw had a hard, fast rule about CBJ.  On one of my visits, during some down time, I just asked her about it, very respectfully, mind you... and guess what, since she was so comfortable with me, I have had BBBJCIM ever since!!!!!