My regular will be outa town for several weeks, is it a bad thing to ask for recommedations?

...with her.  Even though you're a "regular," you're showing that you want to see other providers.  And she probably wouldn't mind if she can refer you to women she knows and trusts not to "steal" you away from her.  When my ATF goes out of town, she encourages me to see her friends.

could be a disaster, could be OK.  Only you know that.  Be very careful, it could backfire on you.  

Thanks everyone.  I'm still up in the air......I have no idea what I'm doing, and probably no idea what I'm getting into.

Because of my lack of knowledge, and probably liked her too much, looks as though she may be gone.....thanks for the response though.

Haven't figured that out yet, but she said that she was all mine, not to share with friends....after I tried to make her some money

Being a newbie to this kind of stuff, that's what kills me....there can't be any kind of relationship, when she's working every night.....what difference does it make, and I haven't gotten used to that yet.  I'm married, but we both travel tons.

Any advice to that?

What does this even mean?

1) Yes, you're going to confuse the passion (or generally the fantasy of it) and the hot sex with affection and some type of "real" connection. Keep those emotions under control. Fall in love for an hour if you want but emotionally know when you walk out the door it was all a performance.
2) Be care what you share here. You never know who is reading this and even little details (I'm married and we both travel a lot -- I suppose suggesting you get lonely a lot so found your way here -- might sound familiar to someone. Who knows maybe your wife is a touring girl and you probably don't want your neighbor or some random coworker or client putting some piece together. I don't think you've crossed any line her but don't confuse the forums and helpful comments with some safe place where you can let your guard down.
3) You can start relaxing things and even think about whether there might be some type of relationship after you've got a year or two experience -- by then you should have trained your emotions and your response to the normal chemical reactions in your body. You're probably working of the reaction function from when you were in high school or college right now.

Thank u very much.............

They are about safely hobbying for us all.  Suggestion...if she is your ATF go to, when you see her, ask her if it is cool when she is not around...also better not to complain how expensive the hobby is to her.

Very good response, and thank you....I'm very new to this, and have put my foot in my mouth more than once...Luckily, she is very understanding of a newbie.

I brought the question up, ........she said would you like to share me with all your friends?...Of course you know the answer to that.  But her quote was very good..." I'll be your soul mate, if u let me, but you also know I have a job to do, let's not mix our friends with what we like to do."...